Is it normal that i don't want to be with anyone since i'm fat?

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First I feel it'd distract me from my goals, and maybe give me undeserved confidence.

Also I find fat bodies absolutely disgusting; texture, look, everything about them.

Is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • LittleGirl-BASHEDandSODOMISED
    7 years ago | pl

    That's perfectly normal and healthy feeling. You can get rid of this feeling by LOSING WEIGHT and GAIN CONFIDENCE.

    Or remain a DISGUSTING OBESE FAT ASS but don't expect any sympathy from me

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  • (s)aint
    7 years ago | pl

    Absolutely correct! I´m not even chubby, currently at a normal BMI, but Ive gained weight and being with someone that loves your body doesnt motivate you to be the best you you can be :P Now I only have 2-3 months left until I look as good as I did before :D Keep fighting!

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    • LittleGirl-BASHED-and-RAPED
      7 years ago | pl

      What's your current BMI?

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      • (s)aint
        7 years ago | pl

        21,1 atm, when I´ve lost the weight I put on; 19.1 I´m more comfortable when I´m skinnier. I know I´m perfectly normal the way I am now but I dislike putting on weight because clothes just don´t look as good anymore.

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  • Goomats
    7 years ago | pl

    You're missing out. Love is fun regardless of your size. My husband is 330 lbs. and we have a lot of fun and great sex. I would have been heart broken if he had refused to date me.

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  • Lonely2
    7 years ago | pl

    With me I can like fat girls if they have nice skin, hair teeth etc and rolls of fat are not as bad as dense and huge bellies

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  • thegypsysailor
    7 years ago | pl

    There is a segment of the male population known as chubby chasers. You don't have to be alone.

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    • Wiltingivy
      7 years ago | pl

      Well, I'd say I'd choose to lose weight rather than settle for someone whom I disagree with on such a massive subject.

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      • thegypsysailor
        7 years ago | pl

        What the hell is that supposed to mean?

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        • Wiltingivy
          7 years ago | pl

          Well if I find one thing attractive. I'd want to be with someone else that shares my aesthetic .
          So if I find thinner people attractive, I'd want to be with someone
          A. Who is thin
          B. Is attracted to thin people

          (So thered be more in common, plus I've been with chubby chasers before, they tend to discourage weight loss.)

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          • thegypsysailor
            7 years ago | pl

            All I said was someone who is overweight does not HAVE to be alone, as there are those who find that attractive.
            If you don't then lose weight, I don't give a shit.

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  • Crow
    7 years ago | pl

    Many people learn to love themselves before being loved by a SO.

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    • Wiltingivy
      7 years ago | pl

      Well, its not that I don't love myself.

      Its that both people need to be comfortable with it, physically I wouldn't be.

      I am losing weight, but until I reach my goal, I'm waiting.
      Because I love myself enough to want to be the best I can be, before I get with anyone.

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    • LittleGirl-BASHEDandSODOMISED
      7 years ago | pl

      Awwww. Poor baby.

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  • Demarcus
    7 years ago | pl

    Since no one probably tosses a look your way, you likely aren't and won't get any action anyway.
    Sounds more like you have created a rationalization for being alienated due to your obesity.

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    • Wiltingivy
      7 years ago | pl

      Could also be true.
      Regardless, its good to try to be the best you can be before trying to find someone.

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      • Demarcus
        7 years ago | pl

        There are 7 billion people on this planet, probability says there is someone for everyone.

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