If you aren't exaggerating then this guy has serious problems and you need to drop him. As in, you are in danger, you are in danger. He lacks a respect for your humanity. He lacks a respect for your humanity
Even if he is just super sensitive you need to drop him anyway. I have this problem as well- you have an inclination to be too nice even at your own detriment. Before I recognized this I was literally ruining myself. This relationship is costing you emotionally. You have to find a balance, it's important not to be a selfish self-absorbed stone-cold bitch but you have to remember not to invest yourself in a person to the point where you are emotionally drained. ESPECIALLY if you are not being appreciated. It is not your obligation to care for the world and fix their flaws, and cater to them and etc. That is someone else's job- their parents or their psychologist or whatever.
Just break up, you may have highs with him but you also have lows. Deep lows. Friends are for mutual benefit and this guy is stressing you out.
Is it normal that I don't want to be this guys friend anymore?
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If you aren't exaggerating then this guy has serious problems and you need to drop him. As in, you are in danger, you are in danger. He lacks a respect for your humanity. He lacks a respect for your humanity
Even if he is just super sensitive you need to drop him anyway. I have this problem as well- you have an inclination to be too nice even at your own detriment. Before I recognized this I was literally ruining myself. This relationship is costing you emotionally. You have to find a balance, it's important not to be a selfish self-absorbed stone-cold bitch but you have to remember not to invest yourself in a person to the point where you are emotionally drained. ESPECIALLY if you are not being appreciated. It is not your obligation to care for the world and fix their flaws, and cater to them and etc. That is someone else's job- their parents or their psychologist or whatever.
Just break up, you may have highs with him but you also have lows. Deep lows. Friends are for mutual benefit and this guy is stressing you out.