Is it normal that i don't want to be bisexual?

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I am an 18 year old female and in the past year, I have become attracted to girls. I'm still hugely attracted to men hugely but in the past few months, I have become sexually attracted to a lot more girls and would like to explore that side of me.
But I just don't want to be bisexual. I have nothing against bisexuals, I just don't want to be one myself. I am planning of 'coming out' in a couple of months (when I go to university) but I am scared to death. I am scared what my family/friends/new friends at university may think of me.
I don't see myself with a woman in the future too, as in a serious relationship. But I know I am definitely attracted to girls but too scared to act on it and don't really want to be bisexual.

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  • lemons
    11 years ago | pl

    BlueJeans the difference between bi and bi-curious is when ur bi-curious ur not sure what u want. Bi means u truely can c urself marrying/having a long term relationship with both. However bi-curious people normally just find both genders attractive.

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    • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
      11 years ago | pl

      Thankyou. I agree, I don't see myself having a serious relationship with a woman, I am just attracted to a few.

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  • DannyKanes
    11 years ago | pl

    Spacey is right. You should listen to Spacey :)

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  • ebulliance
    11 years ago | pl

    I'm bisexual, have been since I was 14. Kind of proud of it.

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  • ForeverG
    11 years ago | pl

    http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNqW_CsocxVGLX38C3P95VA/videos Awesome Videos :) Please comment your ideas, like, and suscribe :)

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago | pl

    Than dont be ? Its as simple as that you dont have to screw around with women its callled self restraint child

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    • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
      11 years ago | pl

      It's called natural, innate feelings.... Child.

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      • Allistalla
        11 years ago | pl

        Also I like your name good cloth combo

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        • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
          11 years ago | pl

          Fair enough. I do agree with what you are saying don't get me wrong. You did bring up some pretty important points. By the way it's me who asked the question.
          And lol thanks, its from Blue Jeans by Lana Del Rey.

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      • Allistalla
        11 years ago | pl

        It doesnt matter poeple will also have annate feeling that they want to kill the person that is talking krap to them and finally snap but no some of these poeple dont they deal with krap thier whole lives but they make a strong couieseince effort not to do it , you dont even need to have a boyfreind you can make a chioce not to do them , I made a chicoe to not have any for a long time and when I began dating poeple it was my chioce unless thier is gun to your head you could just choose not to commit the act, sure the feeling are thier but you dont have to act on them , lets say you hate your boss are you gonna tell them I hate you ? no you just dont say anything and if they cant find anyone and its an unoppurtune time they should wait till their more sure of themselves and they are more psychologiclly ready for this next step , and if it was me coming out of the closet and I was her Id wait for a more oppurtune time . she doesnt want to be bi but is having gay thoughts if she doesnt want to be classified as bi or gay than she shouldnt commit the act and if she wants to try them she should wiat to see if she willing to deal with the reactions or if she is more sure of herself to try anything becuase she doesnt seem sure at all and at this piont she would just be jumping back and force between no i like women no i like men and this will not even garentuee if she fully gay or fully streight that is my only piont im making . so if she doesnt want to questioned about the iccident she just shouldnt do it ". I know who all have feelings I know some of us have sexuel desieres and curiouslty that we cant change but that doesnt change what we do " .

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago | pl

          Also it cuases alot of problems and drammas when you dont know and you expirement with someone is sure , becuase you leave that person saying im sorry nevermind Im streight and that Gay person is heartbroken becuase they truly cared about you and you left them for some dude or just decide to not like them anymore . Thats sad when it happens to gay poeple and it happens to streight poeple , I say that becuase she will cuase detrementel harm to self or possibly others . and if you were a gay chick with someone and they left you saying never mind im streight wouldnt you be sad ? wouldnt you be really upset knowing you could never even attempt to see if you can patch things up becuase thy switched sides ? So Thats what i mean for sayign jsut dont do it becuase she is gonna hurt herself and so many others if she is not sure and thats always very sad and I have seen it happen before its horrible to watch go down .

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      • Allistalla
        11 years ago | pl

        yes but you dont have to act on them - -
        its a chioce to have sex , and its a chicoe to have a boyfreind I have controlled myself for years so I see no reason why nobody else can

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    You aren't. You were attracted to men first, you're straight and a little sad.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago | pl

    Like Space said, you're bi-curious.

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