@Loveitaway
She told me it was that she is not physically attracted to me. She says it's not that I'm ugly but she isn't attracted to me. I believe her. I'm a hairy guy with pitch black hair, I have to shave daily almost since high school(When I shave I get stubble later in the day). Plus My face has scars that they make me look imposing and kinda scary when you first meet me. When I grow a beard I look ten years older easily. Now then, the loser's she tends to be into are hairless blonde drug addicts who got more balls than brains if you catch my drift. My problem is that I am too masculine. At least physically, people tell me I walk like a girl. The one's that know my peaceful nature anyway. Yeah, and before you start weeping for me, I am hot. I am not ugly, I'm manly, but that makes no diff.
@Ramit10 I really hope that she doesn't decide at this late date that she wants to be with me because I honestly want to be single. And I don't want to take advantage of her feeling alone or unloved. We all feel that way, and I don't want her to say anything she'll regret. Besides that relationship would have no drive, and the doubt would be there on both sides.
@jcity152 I couldn't agree more. I made my intention clear to her immediately, most would say too soon. But I fell for her immediately. Alot of guys do. She is nice. She has alot of male friends, but she tells me noone is like me. Yeah, I want to be free from her. (one thing I noticed is that she doesn't trust guys, I don't trust guys either)
Thanks for the help everyone, I know what I have to do, but I don't like it, normal or not.
Is it normal that I don't want to be around the girl who rejected me?
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@Loveitaway
She told me it was that she is not physically attracted to me. She says it's not that I'm ugly but she isn't attracted to me. I believe her. I'm a hairy guy with pitch black hair, I have to shave daily almost since high school(When I shave I get stubble later in the day). Plus My face has scars that they make me look imposing and kinda scary when you first meet me. When I grow a beard I look ten years older easily. Now then, the loser's she tends to be into are hairless blonde drug addicts who got more balls than brains if you catch my drift. My problem is that I am too masculine. At least physically, people tell me I walk like a girl. The one's that know my peaceful nature anyway. Yeah, and before you start weeping for me, I am hot. I am not ugly, I'm manly, but that makes no diff.
@Ramit10 I really hope that she doesn't decide at this late date that she wants to be with me because I honestly want to be single. And I don't want to take advantage of her feeling alone or unloved. We all feel that way, and I don't want her to say anything she'll regret. Besides that relationship would have no drive, and the doubt would be there on both sides.
@jcity152 I couldn't agree more. I made my intention clear to her immediately, most would say too soon. But I fell for her immediately. Alot of guys do. She is nice. She has alot of male friends, but she tells me noone is like me. Yeah, I want to be free from her. (one thing I noticed is that she doesn't trust guys, I don't trust guys either)
Thanks for the help everyone, I know what I have to do, but I don't like it, normal or not.