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I'm a female, almost 26, and a virgin. I haven't found the right guy yet. When I think about having sex I get scared. Don't know why. I watch hentai (anime porn) and I can talk/joke about sex and it doesn't bother me. It's just the thought of doing it. Some guys/girls just seem to need to do it all the time. Will a guy really wait if they like a girl that much?
Well im not a virgin, but im the same in that i can talk about sex without wanting it or getting turned on. From experience though, with boyfriends and close guy friends, if you talk about sex they tend to assume you want sex and not only does it give the wrong impression but can put you in an uncomfortable position, so just be careful.
Also i think some guys would wait. Not all of them though. However once you have sex with a person once they will expect that you do it more often or they will feel like theres something wrong with them if you dont want to. Unless its a one night stand. Thumbs up if you agree...!
You and I are very similar. Except I'm a guy, and vaginas are gross in my opinion. Both genitalia are gross really. I want to have sex someday but I don't think that I'll meet a girl any time soon that can understand my personality and distaste. I talk about sex freely and don't mind having "awkward" conversations with people because I don't make things awkward other people do. To answer your question, yes, a lot of guys are willing to wait if they like the girl a lot. Frankly, you sound nice girl and I'm sure you'll find a man who understands you.
I'm a lot like you too (woo go anime geeks! lol) I can talk about sex, joke about it and such. Shoot I find human sexuality fascinating! I love studding it. But I'm a 23 year old virgin, there were some extenuating circumstances though. I have Lyme disease so that has stopped me from having too much of a social life and no dating life. But now that I'm older I'm scared in many ways, I think mostly because I'm so inexperienced compared to everyone else.