I find your first point a bit off. I know plenty of people who like themselves but aren't that confident because they think other people won't like them. That isn't the same thing; it's a subtle but important difference. I used to be like that. I've always liked myself (apart from a few sharp dips), but there have been times in the past when I've lacked a lot of confidence in the long term because for some reason I didn't expect anyone else to like me.
I guess my point is that liking yourself isn't something exclusive to confident people.
Is it normal that I don't understand why girls like confidence?
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I find your first point a bit off. I know plenty of people who like themselves but aren't that confident because they think other people won't like them. That isn't the same thing; it's a subtle but important difference. I used to be like that. I've always liked myself (apart from a few sharp dips), but there have been times in the past when I've lacked a lot of confidence in the long term because for some reason I didn't expect anyone else to like me.
I guess my point is that liking yourself isn't something exclusive to confident people.