Is it normal that I don't think most people love their family?

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  • I hate my family too. I use to love them until I realized they really just saw me as another mouth to feed. You didn't ask to be born, you didn't ask for life and to be very honest you was not their when your dad decided to impregnant your mom so you don't have to repay them ****! That was their decision and if they are disappointed in you then its not your fault. You didn't raise yourself. If you do things they don't like then its a reflection of them and their bad parenting skills. When I finally make enough money to move away I am moving far away and I will never look back. People who don't understand how you don't love your family can't understand. They can't understand you becuz they have not walked in your shoes. Some ppl really do have an amazing family. Some ppl really do love their family wit all their hearts despite what has happend. If you have a good family then you can't possible comprehend y someone would hate their own family. I tried for years to explain to my therapist why I hated my family. She didn't understand becuz number 1, I couldn't tell her everything at the time becuz if she found out about the abuse I would of gotten put in a foster home and two I didn't even quite comprehend what was happening. I just recently started to learn what was really going on. I just recently learned about the types of abuse and about what is right and wrong. Even with that said I don't understand y ppl complain about their family when they have a complete normal family. I absolutely hate when ppl complain about their family when their mom is doing everything she can do to be a good mom and their dad is bringing home enough money to put a nice size roof over their head, to cloth and to feed their kids and make a really cozy home. If you have a wealthy family, and your home is a safe environment and your not getting beat then stfu. That is when I don't see eye to eye with ppl. If you just hate your mom becuz she tells you the right thing to do and want to see u safe then shut up. Thats her job. She may be boring and she may be old but if she is protecting you and looking out for your best interest then she is showing love. Stop being ungrateful. That is why some ppl don't believe other ppl when they say they hate their family for no reason at all. I would do anything to have a loving family. There are 7 billion ppl in this world and Even though i am 19 I am pretty sure someone will love me and want to be with me. Its so many ppl in this world that you can create a whole new family with ppl you truly love and who truly love you back.

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    • You seem to have deep issues with your family... which is a shame. I guess you should just get away from them and make your own life.

      However, in this post, I was refering more about those cases when people don't dislike their family, but just don't love them.

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