Is it normal that i don't think i'm attractive?

Is it normal that no matter how many guys chase me down, become overly obsessed with me, love me to death, and call me pretty on a regular basis I still don't find myself attractive. I mean I think my hair is ugly, I have a fat stomach, I'm shaped funny, I have stretch marks EVERYWHERE, my toes are too long, my butts not big enough, I can't dress, I just really don't like myself. Is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Just love yourself. There's nothing wrong with you. Especially when you say something like " my butts not big enough." Who are you comparing yourself to? Who said butts should be big? You don't have to look like anyone else. You are beautiful the way you are, I'm sure. Stop worrying about it and just have fun. You're young. Who gives a shit what you look like, have fun with your life!

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  • But other than that you're perfect?

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  • I have arrived at the realization that I am ugly and will always be ugly. So I simply accept it and stop questioning it. Less attractive people have better personalities anyway.

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  • I think I'm unattractive too but sadly nobody except mum tells me otherwise :-(

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  • I feel the same way sometimes.

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  • I have the same thing. I started a course 2 months ago and a lot of the girls said I was attractive and one of the guys said I was a good looking guy. I didn't take them seriously and thought they were just messing around but a few of them got pretty annoyed when i said I wasn't

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  • I don't feel this is normal even though I have heard of people that think like you do. I feel that this is a bad habit to have simply because for one, I'm sure there are some people who would kill just to get a portion of your compliments and attention and second, if you are getting compliments in the first place then people already find you attractive. What is unattractive is not being happy about what you have, just like Curious said, I'm quite sure you look just fine. Fine enough to get chased down and obsessed over apparently which is very fine if so.

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  • Hey it's not a big deal, if guys are "chasing" you down lol.

    I'm not pretty at all. I have a good body, a less than ok face but I have a great personality, very bubbly and upbeat. I love who i am. F*+ck anyone else.

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  • being attractive is overrated anyways

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  • I feel the same thing all the time i have the same exact body shape with what you described except for the butt thing and i just hate it

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  • Poor you.

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  • Iv`e always hated my looks, & I avoid mirrors like the plague, & if anyone brings out a camera, i vanish like a puff of smoke. The strange thing is that people were always telling me that I was pretty when I was younger, & I thouhght that they were being sarcastic.

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  • I look in the mirror don't like what i see in my reflection a stranger is staring at me.

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  • Just have a lot of sexual encounters with guys until you don't hate yourself anymore. That's what a lot of girls with low self esteem do these days it seems.

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