Is it normal that i don't physically enjoy sex?

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I like oral and all, but when it comes to sex, the only thing I enjoy about it is that he's enjoying it. Physically speaking I get absolutely nothing out of it whatsoever. It's not like I don't feel anything, it just doesn't feel good. This is over a half a year after the first time and pretty much daily or several times a day and still...absolutely nothing. If I could read a book during without it being awkward I would most probably do so on several occasions.

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  • AnonyFox
    12 years ago | pl

    Are you female?

    If so, his lack of proper attention and techinque probably is part of the problem.

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  • missmeow
    12 years ago | pl

    Sex is very much mental and not just physical. Try talking dirty and he should be making you want it a lot more. It's all about attraction, not just getting an orgasm

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    I don't know with girls, but for boys, physically it feels better to pee than to have sex and blow your load (I don't know a polite word for it (I'm Danish), so sorry for the way I put it). Most of the enjoyment is merely "illusions" so to speak. Sex has become so hyped these days, we make it better than it really is; sometimes without even knowing.

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  • josh413
    13 years ago | pl

    lmao tell him to work it well, and sometime its just about being in the right state of mind, he should do a lot more work getting you there mentally than just getting it in and getting it out, i can show him if he still keeps being lame lol

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