I'm in the same boat with an 8 yr old boy, 4 yr old boy, and 1 year old girl. My 4 year old pisses me off so bad that I could run down the street screaming! At times I do feel the very same way you do. But, then he does the sweetest little things to make it all better. I chalk my little guy up to his age ( he just turned 4) but I have been talking to someone about it and it seems to help. Sometimes you just have to walk away. Kid's can drive you crazy, but remember that you are the adult. You are in control. When you've lost control, you have to be man/ woman enough to take the steps needed to avoid an unfortunate outcome. I think that that fact that you posted your feelings is very brave and in spite of many negative comments, it doesn't make you a bad person.
Many people who abuse their kids would chastise you for what you said. Maybe their kids wouldn't be getting beat up if they were a little more open about their feelings and had someone to stop them.
Is it normal that I don't love my son?
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I'm in the same boat with an 8 yr old boy, 4 yr old boy, and 1 year old girl. My 4 year old pisses me off so bad that I could run down the street screaming! At times I do feel the very same way you do. But, then he does the sweetest little things to make it all better. I chalk my little guy up to his age ( he just turned 4) but I have been talking to someone about it and it seems to help. Sometimes you just have to walk away. Kid's can drive you crazy, but remember that you are the adult. You are in control. When you've lost control, you have to be man/ woman enough to take the steps needed to avoid an unfortunate outcome. I think that that fact that you posted your feelings is very brave and in spite of many negative comments, it doesn't make you a bad person.
Many people who abuse their kids would chastise you for what you said. Maybe their kids wouldn't be getting beat up if they were a little more open about their feelings and had someone to stop them.