Is it normal that i don't like to see men naked, even during sex?

I just don't think men look good naked lol. I usually prefer them to keep their clothes on when we have sex. But don't get me wrong, I don't mind being the only one naked and I thoroughly enjoy heterosexual sex. In other words I do like penis, but not in its context lol...like not atop a pair of skinny pale hairy legs. And if I see butt cheeks I'm just going to bust out laughing and be turned off.

I guess its because what I find sexually attractive on a man is his personality and style, not necessarily his physical self...in fact seeing his naked body would make me see him as vulnerable and weak and I'm not sexually attracted to that. I'm more turned on by a masculine, mysterious, cool guy and I feel like the naked male body clashes with that. Is this normal??

Is It Normal?
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  • interesting

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  • Normal. We men look bad naked.

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  • I would have agreed with this once upon a time, but it kind of awoke inside of me these past 2 years. I can honestly look at my boyfriends body and be aroused when in the past I would be indifferent. I think this happened because I took the time to actually look while we were being intimate. Instead of closing my eyes I actually looked at his hips moving etc...

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  • Well you know why you don't like to see them naked so I have nothing to add.

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    • im wondering if other people feel like this

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      • Personally I think that MY man naked is absolutely gorgeous. He has a superb ass and I love seeing him having a pee naked.

        The other man I have dated I didn't mind seeing them naked but it wasn't a turn on.

        In general I think that women look better without anything.

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