Is it normal that i don't like sex?

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I'm a 20 year old female that has been sexually active since I was 16. I've had sex with 5 different people, (two males, three female). I'm currently in a relationship with my girlfriend of nearly two years. I am sexually attracted to her and would consider myself a lesbian. However we have sex a couple a times a week, and unless I am touching myself, I will not orgasm. No other person has been able to make me orgasm and therefore, I do not enjoy sex as much as my partner.

To clarify :
I know I can orgasm because I regularly masturbate
I do not enjoy any type of penetration
I'm not honest with my girlfriend and have faked 75% of the time (she doesn't know any of this)

Is It Normal?
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  • iloverape
    8 years ago | pl

    I think it sounds like you need to be slapped around, your clothes ripped off and a cock forced up your butt until the man is pleased...you're a woman, who cares if you're ever sexually satisfied? You deserve to be spit on, choked and gagged until you cry during sex.

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  • Aries
    8 years ago | pl

    I know you can turn around and say "how would you know , you're not me" but hear me out . The information you provided is all normal and common with a lot of partners unfortunately but I don't think you "don't enjoy sex" as you put it . I think it's more of a case , you don't enjoy sex with your current partner . I would suggest trying to work through it with her or if it's putting a large strain on the relationship *says gently* move on to someone else . I hope this isn't the case for you but sometimes these things happen and being sexually compatible is extremely important , at least I think so . I hope this helps you , be well .

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  • Elixis
    8 years ago | pl

    Well it sounds like she's not pleasuring you the way you like. So you should tell her, maybe show her how you like it, then maybe she can pleasure you better.

    But talking to her about it is important.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago | pl

    Talk to your girlfriend.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago | pl

    Do you think she could help if she knew?

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago | pl

    Why don't you enjoy penetration?

    Does it hurt?
    Does it make you feel sea sick?
    Were you raped by one of the guys?

    Let your girlfriend lightly spank your labia with a dildo or whatever.. Then go about your business again.. Then lightly spank it a little harder.. follow this procedure and let us know what happened tomorrow.

    Kbye

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