Yeah, I totally get that. And I do. It's just internally, I feel bad because I'm not used to men caring about me. This is my first instance of a man caring for me and it makes me a bit uncomfortable.
I didn't have a close relationship with my father, and this is my first bf.
Well, girlfriend you need to treat this ole boy with some loving kindness, respect, and gratitude, because he is obviously a true gentleman! Do not compare others to your father especially if he was abusive, neglectful or a deadbeat dad. I know it's natural to want to love your parents, and you can love your dad, but just remember he's not the yardstick by which to measure anyone against!
Is it normal that I don't like it when my boyfriend acts like a man?
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Yeah, I totally get that. And I do. It's just internally, I feel bad because I'm not used to men caring about me. This is my first instance of a man caring for me and it makes me a bit uncomfortable.
I didn't have a close relationship with my father, and this is my first bf.
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Well, girlfriend you need to treat this ole boy with some loving kindness, respect, and gratitude, because he is obviously a true gentleman! Do not compare others to your father especially if he was abusive, neglectful or a deadbeat dad. I know it's natural to want to love your parents, and you can love your dad, but just remember he's not the yardstick by which to measure anyone against!
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So true! Thank you for the great advice!!
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You are very welcome, my dear!