Is it normal that i don't know who i am?

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I have no idea who I am, I never have. I'm always someone else. I'll meet someone and I'll imitate everything about them. The way they talk, walk, their favorite color, their personality in general. Then I meet someone else and decide I want to be them instead. I'm constantly pretending to be other people. I move around a lot, and I'm constantly changing friends, and every time I do, I'm a different person. i don't know if it's because I hate myself, because I don't know who that it. When people tell me to be myself I don't know who to be, because I don't know who I am. It's like I'm always living someone else's life, I'm always someone else. Is this normal?

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Based on 49 votes (19 yes)
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  • crazyladii
    12 years ago

    I feel the same way without all the impersonating. I'm learning to decipher what i like, what i don't. My style of clothes. personality wise i look for who i don't want to be opposed to who i want to be i look for what i don't like. This all has been working for me so far. You seem to want to become people whom you've found qualities you liked in them. Its okay to admire that quality and use it, but you don't have to transform perhaps move onto the next quality of your admiration. Hope this helps

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  • pounderboy
    7 years ago

    If you dont know who you are then jump into a river and next you will know who you are and even were you are.is just my advice.

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  • HospitalForSouls
    9 years ago

    Same here. Growing up, since I was adopted, I never knew who my true parents were so I never really have known who I am.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    I think it's (somewhat) normal. You sound pretty far out there though. I am wondering if you also speak different accents and wear radically different clothing fashions.

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