Is it normal that i don't know what love is?

Whenever I tell someone that I love them, whether it's a friend or family member, I'm pretty sure I don't mean. I'm only saying it because they say it first and I'm just making their expressed sentiments requited or because I'm just being nice. I know that other people love me, I just don't know if I love them.

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  • Treez

    Love is blind and dark

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  • crazykittens

    When you love someone, you know it.

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  • avalonis

    You'll only know the depth of your love when that person has been taken from you, or the love denied from you.

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  • Bobert

    I think "love" is different for different people. I've seen couples who have been together for a week and claim their undying love for each other and I've seen couples who have been together for decades and haven't said "I love you" in years but you can tell by looking at them they exist fully for one and other and wouldn't cope without the other regardless of how dysfunctional they may seem.

    There are people who will constantly express their love through flowers, chocolate, gifts, sacrificing lambs, etc. and others who will do it simply by holding someones hand or kissing them on the forehead.

    You can't measure love and even if you don't think you feel it for your family members and friends it's probably deep down inside you and you would realise how strong it is if you ever lost one of them.

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  • gopitah

    You can't be alive without love.

    Love is pure bliss, when your mind is at peace. And sorry to tell you, but you won't find pure love here on Earth. Almost everything is contaminated, haven't you noticed?!

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  • mtnw

    ya, but, you might really love them. maybe it would take "something big or bad" to happen for you to realize it.

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  • no such thing as love lol i aint trying to sound like oh man i dont believe in love cus am hardcore cus tht isnt the case love isnt wat people think it is its an illusion and pretty much only lust i could explain ully to u wat love is in this world but i reli think ud get bored

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