I think it's different for some females, but I like to make eye contact, sometimes I stare(my bad), I laugh at their jokes, I smile at them if they smile at me, I can be into touch, my voice sometimes gets softer or higher, I can become a little shy when spoken to, a lot of times become quiet, and I usually pay close attention to how I walk in front of them, and I look back at them a lot when they're walking away.
I think with the more confident types, they'd openly say hi, try to start up a conversation, (pay attention to body language!) they kinda strut their stuff, laugh a lot, crack jokes, etc. I knew a girl who would really go out of her way by winking. Sometimes they stroke your ego by giving compliments, but I think the quieter types do that sometimes too but are more subtle about it. It can be on really random things too. Ridiculous stuff like, "Nice glasses. You do very well in glasses. Not many people can pull them off." or "You're always so happy. Not that its a problem, but You just seem so nice to be around". Silly stuff like that. "Cool shoes", or "your eyes are really nice".
Oh yeah, and they might ask a lot of questions. But depending on how confident or shy, whether the girl is an introvert or extrovert, will tell how much she'll talk or how long it will take her to open up to you. Some women don't say much, while others will spill their entire life to you.
uhoh I've just realised where I'm going wrong! I love hearing about people so I always ask men about themselves. It's just that I think women who talk about themselves all evening are sooooo boring! The compliments one is a real big clue.
Is it normal that I don't know how women flirt?
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I think it's different for some females, but I like to make eye contact, sometimes I stare(my bad), I laugh at their jokes, I smile at them if they smile at me, I can be into touch, my voice sometimes gets softer or higher, I can become a little shy when spoken to, a lot of times become quiet, and I usually pay close attention to how I walk in front of them, and I look back at them a lot when they're walking away.
I think with the more confident types, they'd openly say hi, try to start up a conversation, (pay attention to body language!) they kinda strut their stuff, laugh a lot, crack jokes, etc. I knew a girl who would really go out of her way by winking. Sometimes they stroke your ego by giving compliments, but I think the quieter types do that sometimes too but are more subtle about it. It can be on really random things too. Ridiculous stuff like, "Nice glasses. You do very well in glasses. Not many people can pull them off." or "You're always so happy. Not that its a problem, but You just seem so nice to be around". Silly stuff like that. "Cool shoes", or "your eyes are really nice".
Oh yeah, and they might ask a lot of questions. But depending on how confident or shy, whether the girl is an introvert or extrovert, will tell how much she'll talk or how long it will take her to open up to you. Some women don't say much, while others will spill their entire life to you.
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uhoh I've just realised where I'm going wrong! I love hearing about people so I always ask men about themselves. It's just that I think women who talk about themselves all evening are sooooo boring! The compliments one is a real big clue.