The thing about you, is you're being too judgmental of people. You're automatically assuming that people who party are lowlifes, people who have goals are boring, etc. If you label people like that, no wonder you don't have that many friends. I know its an instinct, but there is a such thing as overkill.
You're not the only one whose a balance of both, there are hundreds of people out there. The thing to do is just be friendly and try to acquaint yourself with everyone you meet. Yes, you're going to meet people you don't get along with no matter what, even popular kids got haters. Keep your initial opinions to yourself and try to at least get to know the people around you, and they might surprise you! People come and go.
Is it normal that I don't have many friends for this reason?
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The thing about you, is you're being too judgmental of people. You're automatically assuming that people who party are lowlifes, people who have goals are boring, etc. If you label people like that, no wonder you don't have that many friends. I know its an instinct, but there is a such thing as overkill.
You're not the only one whose a balance of both, there are hundreds of people out there. The thing to do is just be friendly and try to acquaint yourself with everyone you meet. Yes, you're going to meet people you don't get along with no matter what, even popular kids got haters. Keep your initial opinions to yourself and try to at least get to know the people around you, and they might surprise you! People come and go.
Good luck.