Yes this is normal, but not good and should be looked at from a different perspective. I remember feeling the same way and in some way I still do, but you need to understand that what you were taught by your parents and teachers about sex and relationships is wrong. I was taught that women don't look for attractive men, only men who are kind, intelligent, and respect personal space. While they do prefer men to have these aspects, it plays little part in who they find attractive. I'm sure you were also taught that girls only make love with men if they're pressured and manipulated, that sex is only something evil sexist pigs want. I don't think we, males, are dense but I do think that our emotional and sexual dependence on female affection and approval makes us love them and hate them so much. It feels like the whole world has played a trick on you giving you false insight in women and relationships and part of your hatred is that in itself.
Is it normal that I don't have any sympathy for women who date jerks?
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Yes this is normal, but not good and should be looked at from a different perspective. I remember feeling the same way and in some way I still do, but you need to understand that what you were taught by your parents and teachers about sex and relationships is wrong. I was taught that women don't look for attractive men, only men who are kind, intelligent, and respect personal space. While they do prefer men to have these aspects, it plays little part in who they find attractive. I'm sure you were also taught that girls only make love with men if they're pressured and manipulated, that sex is only something evil sexist pigs want. I don't think we, males, are dense but I do think that our emotional and sexual dependence on female affection and approval makes us love them and hate them so much. It feels like the whole world has played a trick on you giving you false insight in women and relationships and part of your hatred is that in itself.