I can understand how you feel. Although, if you understand the psychology behind such things, you may begin to have some kind of sympathy. This girls sounds as if she has some emotional baggage that has never been dealt with. Reliving such behaviours is an indication. It's an involuntary response. For her, chaos is what she's drawn to, a normal/decent guy will be boring for her. If you DID manage to talk her into having a relationship with you, she would involuntarily sabotage it, because she thrives on chaos. She needs therapy.
Is it normal that I don't have any sympathy for women who date jerks?
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I can understand how you feel. Although, if you understand the psychology behind such things, you may begin to have some kind of sympathy. This girls sounds as if she has some emotional baggage that has never been dealt with. Reliving such behaviours is an indication. It's an involuntary response. For her, chaos is what she's drawn to, a normal/decent guy will be boring for her. If you DID manage to talk her into having a relationship with you, she would involuntarily sabotage it, because she thrives on chaos. She needs therapy.