I don't think it's you. I think it's natural. People will come and go throughout your life. Most of the people I know went through something like this in the 10 years after high school. It starts slow, you loose this friend and then that one... Before you know it you're only saying "Merry Christmas" on Facebook and it only gets worse when you have a family of your own.
I don't talk to anybody I went to high school with. I outgrew them. Like you there was a big fight and it made me realize the kind of juvenile people I was still hanging around, 3 years after graduation.
I had the same problem making new friends too. You are so discouraged from the last debacle that you wonder if it's even worth it. I think it is. In the end I have two very close friends that I wouldn't trade for the world. And I went through a lot of people to find them. Lol. Don't give up. I know it's rough.
Is it normal that I don't have any good friends?
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I don't think it's you. I think it's natural. People will come and go throughout your life. Most of the people I know went through something like this in the 10 years after high school. It starts slow, you loose this friend and then that one... Before you know it you're only saying "Merry Christmas" on Facebook and it only gets worse when you have a family of your own.
I don't talk to anybody I went to high school with. I outgrew them. Like you there was a big fight and it made me realize the kind of juvenile people I was still hanging around, 3 years after graduation.
I had the same problem making new friends too. You are so discouraged from the last debacle that you wonder if it's even worth it. I think it is. In the end I have two very close friends that I wouldn't trade for the world. And I went through a lot of people to find them. Lol. Don't give up. I know it's rough.