Of course its normal to have other interests besides drinking and smoking! You shouldn't be afraid to tell your friends "Maybe next time guys, I am busy today.", and then pursue other things that interest you. Its healthy to create and enjoy hobbies and have multiple ways to spend your time. If you want some good alternatives, in my opinion anyway, feel free to ask. All kinds of fun things to do :)
Only do this if you have a backup plan. Otherwise, they may stop asking you to do stuff and you'll become a friendless hermit and lose all social skills and get stuck in a rut, people will notice and treat you poorly and assume you've always been a friendless loser and dig your rut deeper and youll miss out trying to get out of that rut.
Is it normal that i don't have a real desire to do any of this...?
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Of course its normal to have other interests besides drinking and smoking! You shouldn't be afraid to tell your friends "Maybe next time guys, I am busy today.", and then pursue other things that interest you. Its healthy to create and enjoy hobbies and have multiple ways to spend your time. If you want some good alternatives, in my opinion anyway, feel free to ask. All kinds of fun things to do :)
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Only do this if you have a backup plan. Otherwise, they may stop asking you to do stuff and you'll become a friendless hermit and lose all social skills and get stuck in a rut, people will notice and treat you poorly and assume you've always been a friendless loser and dig your rut deeper and youll miss out trying to get out of that rut.