I think you are healthy even if you might not be what some people consider normal. Just out of curiosity is the everyone around you that you refer to mostly comprised of other women. Maybe they're jealous of your independence. There is no should in feeling you emotions. You feel what you feel. I would be suspicious of anyone who tells you what you "should feel." Just be authentic to yourself and if the relationship doesn't work out because you weren't needy and doting enough then it wasn't the right one for you. Misery loves company and miserable codependent women can be the worst influence.
Is it normal that I don't feel sad that my boyfriend is overseas?
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I think you are healthy even if you might not be what some people consider normal. Just out of curiosity is the everyone around you that you refer to mostly comprised of other women. Maybe they're jealous of your independence. There is no should in feeling you emotions. You feel what you feel. I would be suspicious of anyone who tells you what you "should feel." Just be authentic to yourself and if the relationship doesn't work out because you weren't needy and doting enough then it wasn't the right one for you. Misery loves company and miserable codependent women can be the worst influence.