Is it normal that i don't feel physical pleasure during sex?

I was a virgin when I got married about nine months ago, and no matter what I do, I cannot experience an orgasm or feel any pleasure while having sex with my husband. If anything, it's just painful, or sometimes I hardly even feel anything at all. We've tried different positions, lubricants, etc. I'm not going to a doctor for this either. Just please tell me I'm not alone! Sometimes I want to cry, it frustrates me so much!

Is It Normal?
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  • Maybe things will get better with time. I really hope so for you two. Have you tried cunnilingus? If yes, do you get any pleasure from it? If no, you should. Maybe it will help.

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  • I don't experience anything during intercourse either, some women might never.

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  • Was your husband a virgin as well? Might be time to break out the porn and observe.

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