There are those who are raised around those who show no emotion towards everything. Whether they are suprised with presents, win something or be admired by another; so they also just don't have the knowledge of how to show any emotion in specific situations. When they're old enough to think for themselves, they think it's normal for them to be like that cos of the benefits: they don't get teased (who teases someone who doesn't get offended?), they aren't vulnerable in a relationship (this is good cos it gives you control in a relationship, but it's also VERY bad cos showing capability of being hurt is very important for an honest, happy and long-lasting relationship).
You cannot be human and not have emotions (unless you're some kinda unknown species). I've met a lot of dudes like you, they define themselves as psychopaths and heartless merely to avoid getting hurt cos really...they are severely emotional. The emotion-less act (that can also blend in with your personality...seldom permanetly) is to give people the impression that it's a waste of their time to try anything hurtful to you, so they don't. You thus feel like you intimidate others, and you also like that.
Start by allowing yourself to get hurt by the one you are in a relationship with, and show it. Being loving is all about doing what she likes at the time she least expects, do that and see how you feel when she's happy. Talking about feelings, I feel like your post is...mhm, well selective disinformation. But I like feelings so I answered anyway. Peace *
i'm a girl and my bf is the one who is mad that i don't show any real emotions. i mean i smile( when i have to ) laugh at all his bullshit jokes, cry at movies ( when needed to ), and go crazy whenever we do it should't he be happy with that or am i wrong.
Is it normal that i don't feel emotions
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There are those who are raised around those who show no emotion towards everything. Whether they are suprised with presents, win something or be admired by another; so they also just don't have the knowledge of how to show any emotion in specific situations. When they're old enough to think for themselves, they think it's normal for them to be like that cos of the benefits: they don't get teased (who teases someone who doesn't get offended?), they aren't vulnerable in a relationship (this is good cos it gives you control in a relationship, but it's also VERY bad cos showing capability of being hurt is very important for an honest, happy and long-lasting relationship).
You cannot be human and not have emotions (unless you're some kinda unknown species). I've met a lot of dudes like you, they define themselves as psychopaths and heartless merely to avoid getting hurt cos really...they are severely emotional. The emotion-less act (that can also blend in with your personality...seldom permanetly) is to give people the impression that it's a waste of their time to try anything hurtful to you, so they don't. You thus feel like you intimidate others, and you also like that.
Start by allowing yourself to get hurt by the one you are in a relationship with, and show it. Being loving is all about doing what she likes at the time she least expects, do that and see how you feel when she's happy. Talking about feelings, I feel like your post is...mhm, well selective disinformation. But I like feelings so I answered anyway. Peace *
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i'm a girl and my bf is the one who is mad that i don't show any real emotions. i mean i smile( when i have to ) laugh at all his bullshit jokes, cry at movies ( when needed to ), and go crazy whenever we do it should't he be happy with that or am i wrong.