Sounds healthy to me.
You seem to know what the cousin did was not your own doing.
Did he threaten you or loved ones with harm if you "told"? If such words were not said-- it might be easier to get over the abuse of power that occurred.
Still. You say he knew what he was doing? Could it still happen to other youth in the family? Stay aware and protect if needed.
The reason I'm okay now is that I'm an over-thinker. He had told me that (back then) if I refuse him, he'd tell my mom. He made it seem as though it was my fault.
And again, I'm not 100% okay today, but I'm handling it pretty well.
Is it normal that I don't exactly hate my abuser?
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Sounds healthy to me.
You seem to know what the cousin did was not your own doing.
Did he threaten you or loved ones with harm if you "told"? If such words were not said-- it might be easier to get over the abuse of power that occurred.
Still. You say he knew what he was doing? Could it still happen to other youth in the family? Stay aware and protect if needed.
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The reason I'm okay now is that I'm an over-thinker. He had told me that (back then) if I refuse him, he'd tell my mom. He made it seem as though it was my fault.
And again, I'm not 100% okay today, but I'm handling it pretty well.