Is it normal that i don't even like my friends?

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I'm a guy and out of my friends, this will focus on my one guy friend and one girl friend. I'm pretty close friends with both. I get a hint that the girl friend may like me (sings songs to me on the phone, asks me what I'll get her for valentines day, asks me to take her to prom, etc). Although... I also hear that my guy friend likes her, has been to her house, and I've heard she also likes him. I don't know what to do because I'm the kind of person who, if the facts are clear and they like each other, I'll clearly and easily step out of their way... but nobody's saying anything. He won't go into any detail about any kind of relationship and she won't either. I don't know what to make of it because I can't choose to step out of it or continue talking with her.

From that, I've just begun to hate people in general. People hiding things from me, playing with my heart the first and only time I've ever put it out for grabs for someone in my entire life, and my friend I trust the most? I mean, he should at least tell me what's going on... right?

Is it normal I don't like my friends and just want to not talk to them or *anyone* ever again? Just become completely silent, stay at home, and end up talking to my cat or myself? I don't know.

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  • Decimo
    12 years ago | pl

    Yeah, you sound really hurt. Friends are supposed to share things with you, especially if its directly effecting you like this.

    Just take some time to yourself and figure everything out. Especially about the girl. If you really like her, don't hesitate to make a move.

    Its not your fault if your guy friend loses out. You gave him a chance to speak up and you DID show some consideration for his feelings by offering to step out.

    It'll all work out. Don't sacrifice your social life just because some ppl don't wanna open up. :) tons out there will.

    P.S. she probably does like you, I'm a girl and I know she's totally flirting by what you say.

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  • gogoduece
    12 years ago | pl

    Sounds like an average movie...

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    No offence but if thats why you hate people then it is just a phase you dont really hate everyone people who hates everyone doesnt do so for reasons as stupid as that.

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    • citrine
      12 years ago | pl

      About that... There's more reasons, but I didn't want to get into them in my question/story... In short, I guess I don't like a lot of the way people live around me. I can't do anything about it, of course, (they're free to do as they please), but I guess I just don't like it. Maybe I'm weird, maybe this event triggered this and it really isn't worth it to feel this way... I don't know.

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