Is it normal that i don't enjoy sex?

When I had sex for the first time, I really didn't enjoy it. Actually it was one of the most dreadfulliest experiences in my life. But I thought, maybe it's just the first time, it's normal(I think) to not like it. But then I did it more and more but I still didn't like it. It doesn't feel right, it feels particulary unpleasent in most ways and so it's kinda boring. Is it normal? And maybe, if it's not too much, how can I enjoy it?

Is It Normal?
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  • It's normal for U to be feeling like that because Ur sexual needs are not being met. Ur not getting/being satisfied by Ur partner or Ur partner at the time.
    U need to relax put Ur mind I'm motion when Ur with Ur partner and as U guys go along let him kno what U like & what U don't like, U'll be so much happier about having sex.

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  • Depends. Have you only been with one person? If so you are prolly just having some shitty sex. I used to think the same thing until I met a man who was/is very good at sex. Makes all the difference.

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  • Sex is really really mental, even moreso than physical in my opinion. You gotta get your mind into it. Think about how hot your partner is, how much they want you, etc and then you may enjoy the actual physical act. Think of a good build up beforehand! And get comfortable with your body. I think that's a biggie.

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