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I am a straight guy and I've been with women n enjoy sex a lot but Blow jobs are fraustrating for me..I know guy's love recieving bj's but I don't like recieving it at all..
My gf seems to be doing it right(no teeth) but still I cant come as quickly and I stopped her in the middle of it.. Are bj's overrated?
Is it just her style of blow jobs or all blow jobs?
Cos not all men come from blow jobs - some need a bit more stimulation in order to orgasm.
And it really doesn't have to be a negative thing. Just because you don't orgasm from it doesn't mean she has to stop. You can always just use it as a bit of foreplay before having regular sex
It's all preferance. Noones the same, if you don't like bj's tell her you don't like them. If you had the idea in your head that she was doing it for her own enjoyment cause she gets off by sucking oyu, would that make it more enjoyable? Cause if you tell her it's not your thing,a nd she says she still wants to, then that pretty much says she's into it. Which might help you enjoy it... Who knows, either way, pretty normal. It's not for everyone
This is normal, of course. Your sexuality is yours and yours only - what others like or may not like you should not allow to have any bearing on you.
Speaking from experience, I have a friend who doesnt like the idea of them either - for him, he gets a lot of his enjoyment from the other person's; so, if he believes she's only "serving" him, he wont like it. He's refused blowjobs before.
Sex is a huge part of a relationship. If you're having concerns about anything, you best talk to your partner about it - let her know how this or that makes you feel; let her know what you like and dont like. And ask her, too.
For me, it's the very idea of someone selflessly "serving" me - sexuality is as diverse as it gets!