Is it normal that i don't crave sex?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years, and we decided to wait until marriage to have sex. I know I won't be having sex for a while, and I barely even think about it/crave it anymore. Is that normal?
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years, and we decided to wait until marriage to have sex. I know I won't be having sex for a while, and I barely even think about it/crave it anymore. Is that normal?
Tell your boyfriend about it. I think it's important for him to know what he's getting into. Cause i'm sure the guy will ask for sex after you're married and will be in for a surprise when he finds out his wife is as frigid as a wooden plank. Don't waste his time. Tell him to not expect a lot of sex so he can back off before you two get married. Don't create the premises of a failed marriage just because you want to fit into the crowd.
I understand your view for not having sex now (maybe),however not to have any urges or needs light up red flags for me.(for both of you)
Looks like you will enter into a marriage with no fun at all.So why keep dating ? You could be friends with lots of guys too,cuase that`s what it looks like to me. You and your Bf are just friends and nothing more.
I know it can be normal, especially for some women but you should consider looking into some birth controls that turn up your sex drive. I've been in relationships when I'm turned on constantly, and when I'm never at all and I'll tell you that it's much better when you're constantly craving it! plus it can lead to real problems if you never do
For me, I lose my sex drive if I don't do it for a while because I end up being occupied with other things like work, working out, family etc. but then I realize how much I missed it when im doing the deed. So I think if you don't use it you lose it, meaning your sex drive.