Is it normal that I don't care that I was rape/molested?

You was so young, and the mind adjust to this type of thing over time, and you have had much time to put it behind you! But it will always be there, for it has changed you forever and had a effect on making you who you are today! I am sure you would be a different person without these life exposures, but no one can change that now. You just have to make the best of your life, much like most of us! Good luck with your choices