Trust me i know that feel very well, you feel like you've become cold or something but it's not your fault i think it's due to the several disappointments you experienced in your life, that's actually what makes letting go a piece of cake for you, it's kind of a self protection technique when you're tired of caring for the wrong people, but unfortunately the only injustice this method can cause is the fact that there are people worth fighting for but your previous experiences stop you from seeing it and you treat them just like the rest who hurt you before.
I think the worst position to be in, is not knowing if you should let them go for good, or do a little more effort to save the relationship and i can tell that you were in it since you posted this. I don't know if we are in the same situation but the way I see it is I'd rather give all what I have or nothing at all, i'am just fed up with people giving me more negative vibes than positive and all those mind games, even if they were people I ( care ) cared about, but in fact the only thing that keeps holding me back, is the feeling that i'am hurting them, which i'am 90 % sure?but sometimes you gotta be selfish to save yourself from drowning in depression... People are funny as hell they hurt you and then they get angry and make you the bad one and blame you for walking away instead of just putting aside their ego and apologize to you.
Is it normal that I don't care much about losing friends?
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Trust me i know that feel very well, you feel like you've become cold or something but it's not your fault i think it's due to the several disappointments you experienced in your life, that's actually what makes letting go a piece of cake for you, it's kind of a self protection technique when you're tired of caring for the wrong people, but unfortunately the only injustice this method can cause is the fact that there are people worth fighting for but your previous experiences stop you from seeing it and you treat them just like the rest who hurt you before.
I think the worst position to be in, is not knowing if you should let them go for good, or do a little more effort to save the relationship and i can tell that you were in it since you posted this. I don't know if we are in the same situation but the way I see it is I'd rather give all what I have or nothing at all, i'am just fed up with people giving me more negative vibes than positive and all those mind games, even if they were people I ( care ) cared about, but in fact the only thing that keeps holding me back, is the feeling that i'am hurting them, which i'am 90 % sure?but sometimes you gotta be selfish to save yourself from drowning in depression... People are funny as hell they hurt you and then they get angry and make you the bad one and blame you for walking away instead of just putting aside their ego and apologize to you.