This is normal AND very good I'd say. I too have had a friend, a pretty special female friend of many years after high school who suddenly decided to be distant and rude so I unofficially but definitely ceased contact. The way I see it is, when people who used to be important to you does something bad to break and spit on whatever relationship you had and you personally didn't do anything wrong, that is seriously their loss. There is no reason to stay angry for too long because they are the one who will regret their change of heart, not you. (or me either) One day when you are living it up and enjoying life, they will need a friend like you and they won't have one. Might as well be tough about it and accept it.
Is it normal that I don't care much about losing friends?
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This is normal AND very good I'd say. I too have had a friend, a pretty special female friend of many years after high school who suddenly decided to be distant and rude so I unofficially but definitely ceased contact. The way I see it is, when people who used to be important to you does something bad to break and spit on whatever relationship you had and you personally didn't do anything wrong, that is seriously their loss. There is no reason to stay angry for too long because they are the one who will regret their change of heart, not you. (or me either) One day when you are living it up and enjoying life, they will need a friend like you and they won't have one. Might as well be tough about it and accept it.