Is it normal that i don't care being alone?

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Yes, I know it sounds weird but it's true. At school I have a couple friends and we only speak during lunch. At lunch I hang out in the library where there are no kids except my two mates who share similar interests with me. I'm not some lonely guy who tries to have friends but fails. I just don't ever try to get more and honestly, I don't care one bit. In every class throughout the say I don't speak to anyone. When I am at home my uncle and aunt (I live with them) are worried about my social well being because I don't EVER hang out with my friends. The friends who I hang out with at school are friends, but not friends? I know it sounds odd, but I just moved here last year. Before the move I hung out every day after school somewhere. Now not any time at all. I have only been out once this year, and it was with my friend Jay. I didn't like it at all. I honestly would rather be at home laying in bed daydreaming than be at a high school party. Any ideas on why I am like this?

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  • Parakeet14
    11 years ago | pl

    I think it's normal I have a cuzin just like u

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  • YouKnowWho
    11 years ago | pl

    Oh, wonderful creation of the Lord, we have reached a paradox in which I would tell you to come meet me because neither of us like to be around people, but that would go against this quality we share.

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  • YoshiOwns
    11 years ago | pl

    I dont see any problem about that at all, I'm like that too. I think partying and all that stuff is so overrated, i prefer to have it quiet, stay home, reading, drawing, music, or play some video games.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    Do whatever makes you feel ok. I'm sure you would try if you wanted to. Study hard, get a good job, earn loads of money and then have fun.

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  • Just_feed_me_Troll_Meat
    11 years ago | pl

    A common problem among basement dwelling acne farms, which I am sure you are. Common cures include working out, sunlight, and losing virginity.

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  • Absynthe
    11 years ago | pl

    I'm the same. I've got a few people I talk to during class, but once I go back to my apartment, I'm alone and completely content. I used to wonder what friendship could be, but I eventually realized that I was happiest when I was alone. The last time I tried to have an actual friend, rather than someone I only spoke to in class, it ended poorly, with me basically having to ignore her to be her to stop talking to me. But now I'm much happier, and if being alone makes you happy, too, then stay that way.

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  • staybeautiful
    11 years ago | pl

    Havent met right crowd. Obvs u don't want to replace ur friends

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago | pl

    It's possible that you just haven't really met people you want to hang out with. I'm like you in a way. Being alone is fun but solitude is not the same as loneliness. As long as you're happy with who you are and the people you know, I think you're normal.

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