You have completely misunderstood what purpose means. When results are unexpected, that's what makes actions accidental.
If you try to give me a glass of water, but you drop it on my lap, that's an accident, because the result of your action did not match the result you expected. That's when you should say "I'm sorry".
Saying sorry is something people say to keep others happy and maintain social status quo. If you intentionally do something which unexpectadly hurts someone, that's when you should say you're sorry. They might forgive you depending on the situation, and thus maintain status quo (= they might still be your friends).
Is it normal That I Don't Believe In Saying I'm Sorry?
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You have completely misunderstood what purpose means. When results are unexpected, that's what makes actions accidental.
If you try to give me a glass of water, but you drop it on my lap, that's an accident, because the result of your action did not match the result you expected. That's when you should say "I'm sorry".
Saying sorry is something people say to keep others happy and maintain social status quo. If you intentionally do something which unexpectadly hurts someone, that's when you should say you're sorry. They might forgive you depending on the situation, and thus maintain status quo (= they might still be your friends).