Trans people aren't changing who they are. You just have a limiting view of what a person can be. You assume all people with penises feel most like themselves if they wear men's clothes keep their penis, cut their hair short and get referred to as a man. And you are wrong. You are actually encouraging people to not be themselves. Trans people have existed forever and the idea of what it means to be a man or a woman has changed drastically too, often crossing back and forth for what is expected of either one. You have to take into account nobody is claiming their biological make up is different than what it is. Of course the bodies of trans women internally function like a non trans man, not a non trans woman. But then shouldn't they be free to express whoever they are? Why does a penis mean you must 'be male' when being male means so many other things than having a penis? It doesn't surprise me people born with vaginas are actually men in the sense of what that word commonly refers to, which is a set of traits and behaviors, and expression, not just a cock. Like you aren't inside their head so I don't see how you can say they're not being themselves. Of course there are people who don't know, and some may even remain transitioned, but that is sad. There are many different types of people throughout life you will keep learning more and more different types. To go into it saying certain ones you don't agree with and must just be pretending is cutting yourself off from the capability that they're not.
Like I honestly do feel trans women are on some level pretending to be girls. But I also feel that non trans women are pretending to be girls. Like why is it that people with vaginas get to be one way and people without vaginas don't? Like it's not how we were raised but im honestly OK with ethical people making their own choices regardless of what's between their legs. I think you gotta make some trans friends to really get it though. Like once you know a trans girl, and you learn about her, and her being trans becomes the least interesting thing about her and you forget she has a cock, it's like oh this is just that chick. I think that's super tough to learn truly without experiencing. So it's good you're asking questions. I guess personally I feel like all gender categories are pretty boring whether you have a cock and say you're a boy or have a vag and say you're a boy. That's too vague of a claim to say it's genuine or not. But if there's anything I'm saying its that trans people are not lying about what parts they were born with. When they say I am a man. It is in the sense of saying the 'men's' section of the clothing store is for them. The clothes still fit if you don't have a penis. So I really think it's fine. You know like when you put in perspective there are people who choose to blow themselves up, being trans isn't that crazy. I think the word trans is kinda shitty and misleading because it does sort of imply they are attempting to be something they are not. Like they are shape shifting. I think it should be more like I mean don't try to put a male condom on your vagina, but otherwise everything should be for everyone. And let people choose if they wanna be called male or female or whatever and dress act how they like. Idk it's hard to just be like 'you are not that' I mean it is easy but you gotta be god or something to really know. But yeah I guess I disagree with you. Male and female sex is science. But having a vagina and therefore wanting to be called a girl wear dresses long hair make up etc. And nobody with a penis wants that just the same, that isn't science it's an assumption about people and who they are inside. But also I just find boys and girls as concepts somewhat bewildering in the first place. How our genitals ought to say so much about us. People are people like I wouldn't take the trans thing too seriously. I think there is actually like no data in that declaration, you're just saying call me man or woman and then yeah it's a guessing game if they're authentic or not just like it is with everyone else. That's my thought at least.
Is it Normal that I don't agree with transgender people?
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Trans people aren't changing who they are. You just have a limiting view of what a person can be. You assume all people with penises feel most like themselves if they wear men's clothes keep their penis, cut their hair short and get referred to as a man. And you are wrong. You are actually encouraging people to not be themselves. Trans people have existed forever and the idea of what it means to be a man or a woman has changed drastically too, often crossing back and forth for what is expected of either one. You have to take into account nobody is claiming their biological make up is different than what it is. Of course the bodies of trans women internally function like a non trans man, not a non trans woman. But then shouldn't they be free to express whoever they are? Why does a penis mean you must 'be male' when being male means so many other things than having a penis? It doesn't surprise me people born with vaginas are actually men in the sense of what that word commonly refers to, which is a set of traits and behaviors, and expression, not just a cock. Like you aren't inside their head so I don't see how you can say they're not being themselves. Of course there are people who don't know, and some may even remain transitioned, but that is sad. There are many different types of people throughout life you will keep learning more and more different types. To go into it saying certain ones you don't agree with and must just be pretending is cutting yourself off from the capability that they're not.
Like I honestly do feel trans women are on some level pretending to be girls. But I also feel that non trans women are pretending to be girls. Like why is it that people with vaginas get to be one way and people without vaginas don't? Like it's not how we were raised but im honestly OK with ethical people making their own choices regardless of what's between their legs. I think you gotta make some trans friends to really get it though. Like once you know a trans girl, and you learn about her, and her being trans becomes the least interesting thing about her and you forget she has a cock, it's like oh this is just that chick. I think that's super tough to learn truly without experiencing. So it's good you're asking questions. I guess personally I feel like all gender categories are pretty boring whether you have a cock and say you're a boy or have a vag and say you're a boy. That's too vague of a claim to say it's genuine or not. But if there's anything I'm saying its that trans people are not lying about what parts they were born with. When they say I am a man. It is in the sense of saying the 'men's' section of the clothing store is for them. The clothes still fit if you don't have a penis. So I really think it's fine. You know like when you put in perspective there are people who choose to blow themselves up, being trans isn't that crazy. I think the word trans is kinda shitty and misleading because it does sort of imply they are attempting to be something they are not. Like they are shape shifting. I think it should be more like I mean don't try to put a male condom on your vagina, but otherwise everything should be for everyone. And let people choose if they wanna be called male or female or whatever and dress act how they like. Idk it's hard to just be like 'you are not that' I mean it is easy but you gotta be god or something to really know. But yeah I guess I disagree with you. Male and female sex is science. But having a vagina and therefore wanting to be called a girl wear dresses long hair make up etc. And nobody with a penis wants that just the same, that isn't science it's an assumption about people and who they are inside. But also I just find boys and girls as concepts somewhat bewildering in the first place. How our genitals ought to say so much about us. People are people like I wouldn't take the trans thing too seriously. I think there is actually like no data in that declaration, you're just saying call me man or woman and then yeah it's a guessing game if they're authentic or not just like it is with everyone else. That's my thought at least.