Is it normal that i don’t want to share my s/o?

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hey! so i’ve turned 18 a few months back and really started exploring my sexuality. thought i was submissive for so long until i’ve had a relationship with a guy who was submissive. throughout that trial and error, i’ve found out i’m infact a switch. mostly into gentle femdom when i’m “top” w/ slightly sadistic undertones. anywho- i’ve recently gotten into a relationship with my first switch male!! he happens, however, to live half way across the world. throughout us getting to know eachother he’s revealed hes a femboy, neko, etc and also interested in being a cuck. the conflicting thing is, as a submissive i desire to be owned & forced to submit to his ownership & his only. i dont exactly find myself opposed to being shared as mental/physical torture is appealing to me and him both. but when it comes down to him, i dont want to share him at all. a bit scared to bring this up and i dont really have any friends to confide in so. here i am on this ancient website asking for advice. how do i go about bringing up the idea that i’m not interested in being “dommed” by anyone else aside from him, not interested in sharing him, etc. and how long should one wait before introducing a cuck situation into a relationship? is it normal to be alright with being shared but defensive of my property? thank you in advance, loves <33

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  • KholatKhult
    2 years ago

    You’re 18, stop worrying about all the seasoning when you don’t even know how to cook the meat

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  • MonteMetcalfe
    2 years ago

    Why not find someone you love & who loves you back instead of worrying about all this other shit?

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  • buzzybimaybe
    2 years ago

    I think that cuck is hot and you should do it right away!! And don't get jealous just share him if you like your cock he's going to come back for more

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  • fatok
    2 years ago

    just do all the kinky things and you will find the one you like and the ones you don't. try it all once!

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  • Somenormie
    2 years ago

    It's 2021 come out of the closet.

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  • ThatGayBitch
    2 years ago

    Some people prefer open/poly relationships, some people don't. Just ask him and talk it out. Put your boundaries. It will b alright.

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  • verablackjack
    2 years ago

    There is no right or wrong answer in this. It is perfectly fine if you don't want to share your s/o :-)

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  • Tinybird
    2 years ago

    ew sadism

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  • Elroy7141
    2 years ago

    Stop over thinking sex

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  • my_life_my_way
    2 years ago

    The BDSM “community” is the most cringy and repulsive thing ever. That’s my only reaction to this post

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    Just say it!

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  • Vvaas
    2 years ago

    maybe try to gently bring it up or just tell him flat out you wanna talk about something because it's worrying you. if he's a good guy im sure you can talk it out with him and he'll understand

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    I don't blame you with so much homophobia and downright hate going around.

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