Is it normal that i don’t know any parties/invited to any?

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I’m a sophomore at a local college, and I don’t go to parties. Not because I don’t want to, but because I don’t know any I could attend. I’ve never heard, been invited to, and told about parties (unless by people who went the day after). I did join clubs, go to events, and told people I’m interested in partying, but still no success. I admit I don’t have many friends despite my efforts, so I was wondering is what I’m experiencing normal by other college students or I’m just a desperate loser.
PS I’m not joining Greek life cause I’m too poor for it.

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  • jethro
    5 years ago

    You don't have to join Greek life to go to their parties. Go around the dorms and student residences on the weekends. It is 99% OK to crash college parties. You don't need an invite to attend one that has a bunch of people coming and going. Just come with something to share and you will be welcome.

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  • TS
    5 years ago

    I used to feel the same way. Here's a pro-tip that it took me way too long to think of: Throw a party. Once you've thrown a party yourself, the people who went think of you when they're throwing a party of their own, and remember to invite you.

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    • TheBlindInquisitor
      5 years ago

      I don't think it's werid in truth I have been to plenty of parties that I wasn't directly invited to but people seem to be ok with it. Give it time it could happen or you should network alittle more it's not that hard and I'm not that social.

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