Is it normal that i do this?

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Please give me your advice/feedback on something that has been bothering me.

I am a male who has always had relationships with females, fantasized about females, and had sex with females. Over the past two years, sometimes when I got stressed I thought about sex with males, but nothing more. Recently, I broke up with my girlfriend, and when I was out with my friends, I had sex (receptive anal and giving oral) with a gay friend just to see what it was like. When I told a friend about this, they mentioned that you are probably bisexual or gay and that I should enjoy the fact that I like sex with men. The problem is that I think I may have done it because I was stressed, but not that they have kept telling me I liked it, I think that I internalized these feelings and find myself wanting to repeat the acts.

Thoughts?

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    You need to accept yourself as you are, not what others say you should be. If you’re bi, then go with it, I enjoy being bi.

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  • Magenta_W
    11 years ago

    Labels really don't matter. It feels good? Go for it!

    If you don't want to be gay or bi, then you don't have to be . All of those things feel good, and everybody likes feeling good regardless of who's doing it.

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  • powerpoe
    11 years ago

    what ths guy said ^
    just have sex with whatever gender you like, as long as it feels good, nothing matters

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    The last part of your post is a little confusing, you think you only wanted to have sex with men because you were stressed and you don't want it at all unless you're stressed?

    Because if so then "I'm bi when I'm stressed" is a legit sexuality. You can be attracted to anyone and there'll be a sexuality label to put on it but you don't have to label yourself. You are who you are and you sleep with whoever you like (with consent!)

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