Is it normal that i dislike the idea of s*x?

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I think of s*x as completely cringe-worthy. I mean... just the very idea disgusts me.

Yes, I think of people as physically attractive. For example, I think that Zac Efron is physically attractive. I just wouldn't... y'know.

And I don't just dislike the idea of... hem 'doing it' with guys, it's also with gals. I think that it'd be really uncomfortable, and I don't really... "like" either of them that way.

I've been romantically interested in people before, and have had three boyfriends, and have indeed been physically attracted to them, but that was years ago. I'm older now, and most guys at my school are more interested in... uh, that, then me myself. I'm afraid that I'm going to get in a relationship where I'm expected to be sexually active.

As you can see, I can't even type it out without feeling uncomfortable. I just... I don't like the idea of someone putting their... and... all that junk.

I think I'm asexual, but I guess that depends on how someone defines it. Is that... err, normal?

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago | pl

    You don't like the idea of someone putting his penis in your vagina. Maybe you haven't met the right guy, but maybe you are in fact an asexual. I think you're fine the way you are. All these douchebag degenerates make a big deal about saying no one should them so certainly no one should judge you.

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    • wistfulmaiden
      8 years ago | pl

      This person sounds young. Most women don't hit their sexual peak until way later than men. I know I didn't care much for sex until almost 30. I mostly just did it at a younger age because boyfriends expect it.

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  • TrustMeImLying
    8 years ago | pl

    You may just be a late bloomer y'know. And Rose is right once you meet a guy you're super comfortable with and connect well with, things might come naturally. If not, there are many asexual people out there. Nothing to worry about

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  • Stinky_Niggers
    8 years ago | pl

    It's unusual, but a lot of people are just like this so you shouldn't feel weird. You just never hear about it because those who are like this are either made fun or don't advertise it because it's not considered "normal".

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    8 years ago | pl

    i hate the idea of sax too

    specially with the way clinton and kenny g was flauntin that shit

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  • AngryinOhio
    8 years ago | pl

    It's perfectly normal for you if you've never been sexually attracted to someone. Some people are just like that.

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  • dirtybirdy
    8 years ago | pl

    Sox? I don't like baseball either..

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago | pl

    Some people are asexual that's just how it is

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  • Redcoats
    8 years ago | pl

    Cool story Lesley, needs more dragons.

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  • Prevalence
    8 years ago | pl

    Your labido is just lower than average

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  • Terence_the_viking
    8 years ago | pl

    oof you hate it so much you can't even say it.

    I feel sorry for you i really do.

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  • bucho's_butt
    8 years ago | pl

    Just don't get into a relationship with some guy and string him along. I had the misfortune of dating a girl once that didn't like sex but she'd fool around a little bit. It was excruciating. Don't subject someone to that shit!

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