I was the same exact way. I've also always wondered the same thing. I begged her for a day or 2 then after I found out she went out to dinner and a movie with her "friend" Together for 9 months then a week later she goes out to dinner with another guy. After that I admitted defeat and never pursued her. I felt that she knew what she wanted and that was it. Im pretty sure I was just a time killer while she waited for her "friend" to become single. She tried blaming me that I was more like a friend then a bf. Even tho I was always with her,I let her go out to clubs with her friends and even go out to lunch with a few of her other "friends" That she used to "talk" to. I was open and believed she wouldnt do anything. Boy was I wrong......
There is a difference between putting in effort to be with a girl who is actually interested and appreciates the effort you put in, and 'fighting' for a girl who is simply a tease and likes the attention. The problem is that it's so difficult to see what kind of girl you are chasing, especially when you are already intensely involved in the situation.
Is it normal that I didn't fight for her?
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I was the same exact way. I've also always wondered the same thing. I begged her for a day or 2 then after I found out she went out to dinner and a movie with her "friend" Together for 9 months then a week later she goes out to dinner with another guy. After that I admitted defeat and never pursued her. I felt that she knew what she wanted and that was it. Im pretty sure I was just a time killer while she waited for her "friend" to become single. She tried blaming me that I was more like a friend then a bf. Even tho I was always with her,I let her go out to clubs with her friends and even go out to lunch with a few of her other "friends" That she used to "talk" to. I was open and believed she wouldnt do anything. Boy was I wrong......
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There is a difference between putting in effort to be with a girl who is actually interested and appreciates the effort you put in, and 'fighting' for a girl who is simply a tease and likes the attention. The problem is that it's so difficult to see what kind of girl you are chasing, especially when you are already intensely involved in the situation.