I hate wishlists too. I find them impolite and a bit out of consideration sometimes. Every time you give a wishlist to someone they'd feel pressured to buy something from it. It's like "My wishlist says you can buy me a farm, 6 ponies, and silver cages for my hens if you want to. I only say 'want' because if I say you 'have to' you're going to feel pressured to spend a unnecessary large amount of money although I'm already pushing you around by giving you my wishlist. And remember if you don't buy them for me I'm going to be highly upset and tell the whole family what an asshole you are." Extremely stressful.
Is it normal that I DESPISE wishlists/planned gifts?
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I hate wishlists too. I find them impolite and a bit out of consideration sometimes. Every time you give a wishlist to someone they'd feel pressured to buy something from it. It's like "My wishlist says you can buy me a farm, 6 ponies, and silver cages for my hens if you want to. I only say 'want' because if I say you 'have to' you're going to feel pressured to spend a unnecessary large amount of money although I'm already pushing you around by giving you my wishlist. And remember if you don't buy them for me I'm going to be highly upset and tell the whole family what an asshole you are." Extremely stressful.