Ever consider it's not about being "surprised" ... but that you are suppose to be pleased that someone cared about you enough to want to treat you to things you want?
I mean hell... my own mother, she has a heart condition and she gets TIRED easily. Running around trying to figure out what I might want - especially when I'm in a different state - that would just drain her.
So the wish lists are to make things easier for her. Same for my other family members.
To treat such gifts with disdain ... To me that's rude and ungrateful. Extremely so.
Is it normal that I DESPISE wishlists/planned gifts?
← View full post
Ever consider it's not about being "surprised" ... but that you are suppose to be pleased that someone cared about you enough to want to treat you to things you want?
I mean hell... my own mother, she has a heart condition and she gets TIRED easily. Running around trying to figure out what I might want - especially when I'm in a different state - that would just drain her.
So the wish lists are to make things easier for her. Same for my other family members.
To treat such gifts with disdain ... To me that's rude and ungrateful. Extremely so.