That you hate your marriage is clear. You two aren't on the same page with the most major responsibilities and decisions in a marriage involving employment earnings, the division of household work and parenting.
You two have a war going that includes the kids as a battle ground. Get counselling because you need to turn things around one way or the other. I don't think you hate your children. I think you are worried about what the chaos is doing to them.
But you have to also step back and address your bitterness about your kids. You can't afford to alienate them - they'll be your kids all your life, even though your marriage may not last. Get help with that.
Is it normal that I DESPISE my kids?
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That you hate your marriage is clear. You two aren't on the same page with the most major responsibilities and decisions in a marriage involving employment earnings, the division of household work and parenting.
You two have a war going that includes the kids as a battle ground. Get counselling because you need to turn things around one way or the other. I don't think you hate your children. I think you are worried about what the chaos is doing to them.
But you have to also step back and address your bitterness about your kids. You can't afford to alienate them - they'll be your kids all your life, even though your marriage may not last. Get help with that.