I can't really see much of a way around that though. If you stay with your wife and kids simply because you don't trust your wife to correctly spend the money she'd receive upon your divorce, you're remaining miserable simply to protect some financial assets. What do you GAIN from that scenario? You retain stocks but stay unhappy.
Financial stability is great, but if you have to choose between financial stability and the possibility of having a happy and fulfilling existence with people you love, the latter option wins, does it not?
You said you DESPISE your children, so what does it matter to you if they're fed or clothed? Unless you were simply expressing your frustration and saying things you don't actually mean?
It's not just the financial assets, it's the children. I know how my wife is with finances and I know that she would neglect to feed the children. And yes, I despise my children, but they are still my children and it is still my responsibility as a parent to see to it that they are provided for. I'm sorry that you don't understand that but my personal feelings are not allowed to decide whether or not I am their Father.
Is it normal that I DESPISE my kids?
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Yeah, that does sound like a problem.
I can't really see much of a way around that though. If you stay with your wife and kids simply because you don't trust your wife to correctly spend the money she'd receive upon your divorce, you're remaining miserable simply to protect some financial assets. What do you GAIN from that scenario? You retain stocks but stay unhappy.
Financial stability is great, but if you have to choose between financial stability and the possibility of having a happy and fulfilling existence with people you love, the latter option wins, does it not?
You said you DESPISE your children, so what does it matter to you if they're fed or clothed? Unless you were simply expressing your frustration and saying things you don't actually mean?
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It's not just the financial assets, it's the children. I know how my wife is with finances and I know that she would neglect to feed the children. And yes, I despise my children, but they are still my children and it is still my responsibility as a parent to see to it that they are provided for. I'm sorry that you don't understand that but my personal feelings are not allowed to decide whether or not I am their Father.