Ugh. Oh, poor mother. You just sat there demonizing the father, then when someone demonized the problem (the mother), it's all "Wah, she's a human being. Wah!". Are you fucking kidding me?
Why is he so scared of her? Because of the reaction he will get. If you read the comments and replies he makes, you'd understand, b ut I certainly doubt you'll feel sorry for him, he's the asshole and the mother is the rainbow sunshine carebear to you.
He is scared because of how the reaction would be legally. He is scared to want a divorce because his house and paycheck can be taken away, everything he ever worked towards. His wife threatened to throw him out when he stood up to her, even though it's "his" house. Legally, society will help the female here and leave this poor man by himself with no help, even when he was trying to help his children by makiing them more responsible, and even though he is the one working to keep his children fed and heated.
Bullshit you would. From what I have seen from you, I strongly dissagree you would.
Piss off. He hates the way his children are, and so he tries to make them more respectable. He can't. Why? Beause his wife won't let him be a parent, and won't let him try to teach them to be respectable. Yet, it's his fault. "wah, wah", right? Fucking baffoon.
"I don't know how to be a parent". He's trying to be. He "can't". His wife will not let him be by bypassing all the decisions he makes as a father. And since he works, his mother most likely lets the children off of his punishment, basically belittling him (if it was gender reversed you would be having a period) and yet "he" is the one that doesn't know how to be a father? It isn't that he doesn't know, it's that his wife isn't letting him be. Fuck. Do you have no deductive reasoning, or are you purposly just being a nimrodded baffoon?
Take a Goddamn parenting book and fix them? Did you even fucking read the description? Are people so fucking shocked when I be negative to people on here when I have to read this, then see that four idiots thumbed it up? This is going in capitals so you can understand.
"HE CANNOT FIX HIS CHILDREN TO BE MORE RESPECTABLE, BECAUSE EVERY DECISION HE MAKES GETS BYPASSED BY THE WIFE. HE WORKS, AND SO HE CAN'T KEEP AN EYE ON HIS CHILDREN 24/7, IN WHICH THE WIFE WILL JUST GIVE BACK WHAT WAS TAKEN AWAY FROM THEM BY THE FATHER TO MAKE THEM MORE RESPECTABLE".
How can you not understand this? I tell you why, because it is the father. You are blaming the father for not being able to make choices as a parent, even though it isn't that he's not trying, it's that his wife won't let him, but yeah, totally not the mother's fault, remember, she's a carebear, and the father is just an asshole, right?
I don't believe he hates his children. I believe he hates his children fro who they, and he is trying to help them, but he can't. I think he hates how his kids have turned out. His wife? I would hate her too, she is the root of the problem.
He is pissed off at his wife because she is allowing the children to further go on as problems. His children are a problem, and his mother is the cause and root of it. Without the mother, I have no doubt he would change them in to more respectable children that he would love completely.
Is that in regards to the image of his children? She is not "bleaching her hair" only, she is also dressing in a slutty way. Wearing hoodies? He also explained how he is acting like a thug. Again, did you even read the description?
This is what I have to deal with from most of you, and you are really fucking mindfucked over why I think of most of you in a negative manner?
Oh my god ItDuz. I have not once defended the mother. Calm down a bit. I didn't say that she or the kids were faultless but I doubt the op is an angel. And don't fucking put words in my mouth it makes you look paranoid.
He SAID he hated his children and I'm going to take his word for that not your assumption. He has not shown concern for his children. He HATES his children. Maybe you don't realize what a big deal that is because you throw the word "hate" around pretty often but that's pretty abnormal. "I want you to change because I love you" and "I want you to change because I hate you" mean two entirely different things and I don't understand why you think hate and love are interchangeable!
Oh, and if kids like the ones described told me that their dad hated them I would say that they had DADDY ISSUES. (They might have other issues too on top of that) And I would say that a dad who hates their kids is a BAD FATHER.
You have not defended her for her actions, but you have defended her on the scale of what she done compared to the man, implying she isn't as bad as the father, when infact she is.
Again, you try to blame the father in any matter. He has tried, but he can't carry out what he tries to put in motion for the better of his children.
That is like me saying "Yeah, well the rapist is bad, and in no way am I defending him, but I doubt the rape victim is an angel". Ofcourse, you'd go apeshit if someone said that on here.
Words in your mouth? What words? Again, explain, don't just state. If you explain what I have apparantly put in your mouth I can either explain why I came to that conclusion accuratly, or apologize.
Yes, he hates his children. "Why" does he hate his children? Do you need everything babystepped to you? Use your brain. Link things together in the description. He hates them because they are not respectful. He tries to make them respectful, in attempts to put them in the right back and love them as father to child, but can't. This isn't my assumption, it is deductive thinking.
He has not shown concern for his children? What? Did you even read this?
- Everytime I tell her no and try to put my foot down she goes to Mom and puts on a fake display of tears.
- but his Mom insists that I let him explore his identity as I sit there in the principal's office because he thinks he is too cool to show up to class sober.
Unless you are not reading things correctly, you have no excuse for missing those parts. He clearly wants them to change, and his wife is stopping him from doing anything to make them decent, respectable children.
He "hates" who his children are, and wants to make the more respectable so that he can love them.
What are you talking about? He hates who they are, so he wants them to change so he can love them. How is not able to go in to your head?
That rape comparison doesn't work and you know it. Don't go over dramatic.
Wait! You seriously don't know that there's a difference between wanting to someone to change because you love them versus because you hate them? And you even put in this "earn your folk's love" thing? And now that awkward moment when I feel bad for you.
Well at least you can argue with the fury of a thousand prepubescent Call of Duty gamers.
A thumb down, yet no counter points. This is why the thumbs options should be removed, too many people rely on it because they know that if they put their points up, they couldn't rely on the thumb option.
Is the subject the same in the axample? No. Is the situation the exact same? Yes. If it isn't, then explain to me how it doesn't work. You know it works, you just don't want it to, otherwise you would of explained how it doesn't work.
Ugh. Last time I'm going to say this. Why the hell can't other users understand things or explain why they think someone is wrong?
He hates who his hildren are, not his children completely. If he wants his children to change because he loves them, but hates who they are. Kind of like how you can dislike a family member, yet love them. If you need this explained to you furthermore, then I lack the patience to make you understand this.
You know what's actually funny, you try to insult me on my argung/debating style, yet you can't even understand or prove one single point I made wrong. So in otherwords, how does it feel to pretty much need babied by someone you describe as a prepubescent call of duty gamer?
So far all you have done is:
1st paragraph: "Nuh! That doesn't work! I can't explain why, but it just doesn't!"
2nd paragraph: Completely misunderstanding simple things that are being babied to you.
3rd paragraph: Basically insulted yourself in your attempts to insult me.
Is it normal that I DESPISE my kids?
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Ugh. Oh, poor mother. You just sat there demonizing the father, then when someone demonized the problem (the mother), it's all "Wah, she's a human being. Wah!". Are you fucking kidding me?
Why is he so scared of her? Because of the reaction he will get. If you read the comments and replies he makes, you'd understand, b ut I certainly doubt you'll feel sorry for him, he's the asshole and the mother is the rainbow sunshine carebear to you.
He is scared because of how the reaction would be legally. He is scared to want a divorce because his house and paycheck can be taken away, everything he ever worked towards. His wife threatened to throw him out when he stood up to her, even though it's "his" house. Legally, society will help the female here and leave this poor man by himself with no help, even when he was trying to help his children by makiing them more responsible, and even though he is the one working to keep his children fed and heated.
Bullshit you would. From what I have seen from you, I strongly dissagree you would.
Piss off. He hates the way his children are, and so he tries to make them more respectable. He can't. Why? Beause his wife won't let him be a parent, and won't let him try to teach them to be respectable. Yet, it's his fault. "wah, wah", right? Fucking baffoon.
"I don't know how to be a parent". He's trying to be. He "can't". His wife will not let him be by bypassing all the decisions he makes as a father. And since he works, his mother most likely lets the children off of his punishment, basically belittling him (if it was gender reversed you would be having a period) and yet "he" is the one that doesn't know how to be a father? It isn't that he doesn't know, it's that his wife isn't letting him be. Fuck. Do you have no deductive reasoning, or are you purposly just being a nimrodded baffoon?
Take a Goddamn parenting book and fix them? Did you even fucking read the description? Are people so fucking shocked when I be negative to people on here when I have to read this, then see that four idiots thumbed it up? This is going in capitals so you can understand.
"HE CANNOT FIX HIS CHILDREN TO BE MORE RESPECTABLE, BECAUSE EVERY DECISION HE MAKES GETS BYPASSED BY THE WIFE. HE WORKS, AND SO HE CAN'T KEEP AN EYE ON HIS CHILDREN 24/7, IN WHICH THE WIFE WILL JUST GIVE BACK WHAT WAS TAKEN AWAY FROM THEM BY THE FATHER TO MAKE THEM MORE RESPECTABLE".
How can you not understand this? I tell you why, because it is the father. You are blaming the father for not being able to make choices as a parent, even though it isn't that he's not trying, it's that his wife won't let him, but yeah, totally not the mother's fault, remember, she's a carebear, and the father is just an asshole, right?
I don't believe he hates his children. I believe he hates his children fro who they, and he is trying to help them, but he can't. I think he hates how his kids have turned out. His wife? I would hate her too, she is the root of the problem.
He is pissed off at his wife because she is allowing the children to further go on as problems. His children are a problem, and his mother is the cause and root of it. Without the mother, I have no doubt he would change them in to more respectable children that he would love completely.
Is that in regards to the image of his children? She is not "bleaching her hair" only, she is also dressing in a slutty way. Wearing hoodies? He also explained how he is acting like a thug. Again, did you even read the description?
This is what I have to deal with from most of you, and you are really fucking mindfucked over why I think of most of you in a negative manner?
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Oh my god ItDuz. I have not once defended the mother. Calm down a bit. I didn't say that she or the kids were faultless but I doubt the op is an angel. And don't fucking put words in my mouth it makes you look paranoid.
He SAID he hated his children and I'm going to take his word for that not your assumption. He has not shown concern for his children. He HATES his children. Maybe you don't realize what a big deal that is because you throw the word "hate" around pretty often but that's pretty abnormal. "I want you to change because I love you" and "I want you to change because I hate you" mean two entirely different things and I don't understand why you think hate and love are interchangeable!
Oh, and if kids like the ones described told me that their dad hated them I would say that they had DADDY ISSUES. (They might have other issues too on top of that) And I would say that a dad who hates their kids is a BAD FATHER.
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You have not defended her for her actions, but you have defended her on the scale of what she done compared to the man, implying she isn't as bad as the father, when infact she is.
Again, you try to blame the father in any matter. He has tried, but he can't carry out what he tries to put in motion for the better of his children.
That is like me saying "Yeah, well the rapist is bad, and in no way am I defending him, but I doubt the rape victim is an angel". Ofcourse, you'd go apeshit if someone said that on here.
Words in your mouth? What words? Again, explain, don't just state. If you explain what I have apparantly put in your mouth I can either explain why I came to that conclusion accuratly, or apologize.
Yes, he hates his children. "Why" does he hate his children? Do you need everything babystepped to you? Use your brain. Link things together in the description. He hates them because they are not respectful. He tries to make them respectful, in attempts to put them in the right back and love them as father to child, but can't. This isn't my assumption, it is deductive thinking.
He has not shown concern for his children? What? Did you even read this?
- Everytime I tell her no and try to put my foot down she goes to Mom and puts on a fake display of tears.
- but his Mom insists that I let him explore his identity as I sit there in the principal's office because he thinks he is too cool to show up to class sober.
Unless you are not reading things correctly, you have no excuse for missing those parts. He clearly wants them to change, and his wife is stopping him from doing anything to make them decent, respectable children.
He "hates" who his children are, and wants to make the more respectable so that he can love them.
What are you talking about? He hates who they are, so he wants them to change so he can love them. How is not able to go in to your head?
Ugh. Again. You're just so unbarable.
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That rape comparison doesn't work and you know it. Don't go over dramatic.
Wait! You seriously don't know that there's a difference between wanting to someone to change because you love them versus because you hate them? And you even put in this "earn your folk's love" thing? And now that awkward moment when I feel bad for you.
Well at least you can argue with the fury of a thousand prepubescent Call of Duty gamers.
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A thumb down, yet no counter points. This is why the thumbs options should be removed, too many people rely on it because they know that if they put their points up, they couldn't rely on the thumb option.
Is the subject the same in the axample? No. Is the situation the exact same? Yes. If it isn't, then explain to me how it doesn't work. You know it works, you just don't want it to, otherwise you would of explained how it doesn't work.
Ugh. Last time I'm going to say this. Why the hell can't other users understand things or explain why they think someone is wrong?
He hates who his hildren are, not his children completely. If he wants his children to change because he loves them, but hates who they are. Kind of like how you can dislike a family member, yet love them. If you need this explained to you furthermore, then I lack the patience to make you understand this.
You know what's actually funny, you try to insult me on my argung/debating style, yet you can't even understand or prove one single point I made wrong. So in otherwords, how does it feel to pretty much need babied by someone you describe as a prepubescent call of duty gamer?
So far all you have done is:
1st paragraph: "Nuh! That doesn't work! I can't explain why, but it just doesn't!"
2nd paragraph: Completely misunderstanding simple things that are being babied to you.
3rd paragraph: Basically insulted yourself in your attempts to insult me.
Good going, FocoUS, you go girl!