Don't worry, you don't need to explain to me how something may sound bitter but can be true, I know that fill well, and it is a sad situation.
Wow, what? You really need to find some way of teaching your wife a lesson. Your children are a problem because your wife is the root problem, she is allowing them to get away with these things. Pretty sure I read that you were the one that was working for the family? I assume you bought or are renting the house you live in? Next time she threatens you to leave, tell her (if you are paying for the house) that it is your house, you pay for it, and if she dares says that she'll kick you out, it will happen to her. Also explain to her that if you are to get kicked out, she won't be getting any of your income, and that she can work for her children.
Yes, this woman definetly is a problem for you and your kids. You need to try do something about her, either on social means (talking to her) or in legal means (divorce and taking the kids). When you take the kids, she may have to work for child support, which will teach her how hard it was for you.
Why would you have to give up your house? Also, if you get the children, she would have to pay child support, which means you may get the same, just a little less, or more money back in which you have to pay her.
This is the society we live in, unfortunatly. Nobody cares about the hard working men, and fathers are almost always pushed out of the family setting now.
If you would be expected to pay all of this, and the children are taken away from you even though you have a job, etc, then I would actually suggest moving to Mexico. You would get away with not having to pay a woman that is, and excuse my French, a bitch, and she'd not get any child benefits from you, inb which she'd probably have to go to work herself.
Is it normal that I DESPISE my kids?
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Don't worry, you don't need to explain to me how something may sound bitter but can be true, I know that fill well, and it is a sad situation.
Wow, what? You really need to find some way of teaching your wife a lesson. Your children are a problem because your wife is the root problem, she is allowing them to get away with these things. Pretty sure I read that you were the one that was working for the family? I assume you bought or are renting the house you live in? Next time she threatens you to leave, tell her (if you are paying for the house) that it is your house, you pay for it, and if she dares says that she'll kick you out, it will happen to her. Also explain to her that if you are to get kicked out, she won't be getting any of your income, and that she can work for her children.
Yes, this woman definetly is a problem for you and your kids. You need to try do something about her, either on social means (talking to her) or in legal means (divorce and taking the kids). When you take the kids, she may have to work for child support, which will teach her how hard it was for you.
Why would you have to give up your house? Also, if you get the children, she would have to pay child support, which means you may get the same, just a little less, or more money back in which you have to pay her.
This is the society we live in, unfortunatly. Nobody cares about the hard working men, and fathers are almost always pushed out of the family setting now.
If you would be expected to pay all of this, and the children are taken away from you even though you have a job, etc, then I would actually suggest moving to Mexico. You would get away with not having to pay a woman that is, and excuse my French, a bitch, and she'd not get any child benefits from you, inb which she'd probably have to go to work herself.
I am sorry this is happening to you.