Hmmmmmm, interesting hearing a guys point of view. You obviously have gotten to the point where you look at your wife and hate her. You need to step back, and start to look at why you married and loved your wife and work with her to get your relationship back! When you fall in love all over again, and become a united patnership the issues with the kids will correct themselves.
This means respecting what she does for the house, not just constantly putting her down. And coming from a womans point of view if you praise her she will praise you too!
I have done both.... been the breadwinner and the stay at home mum. Both are Equally difficult and both demand respect for their input.
You sound like a hard worker, i'm sure she does respect your input into the family, just doesn't show it because why should she when you don't respect her!!!
Is it normal that I DESPISE my kids?
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Hmmmmmm, interesting hearing a guys point of view. You obviously have gotten to the point where you look at your wife and hate her. You need to step back, and start to look at why you married and loved your wife and work with her to get your relationship back! When you fall in love all over again, and become a united patnership the issues with the kids will correct themselves.
This means respecting what she does for the house, not just constantly putting her down. And coming from a womans point of view if you praise her she will praise you too!
I have done both.... been the breadwinner and the stay at home mum. Both are Equally difficult and both demand respect for their input.
You sound like a hard worker, i'm sure she does respect your input into the family, just doesn't show it because why should she when you don't respect her!!!