his post is full of hatred so thats what we are commenting on, to hear a father say he hates his children...makes some people doubt the veracity of his story , i doubt the whole story and think he is the unloveable talking about the unloved
His post may be full of hatred, but that's because he has a reason to feel that way. How would you feel working a job for your family to be able to eat, having to work so your children stay healthy, then when you want to try make "your" children more respectable because you know they're on the wrong path, you basically get slapped in the face and get told "you aren't allowed to make decisions a parent would, even though you're the rather that is paying for us to live"? How would you like that?
Like I stated on another comment, there is a motrher that posted basically the same thing about hating her husband and kids, and look at the feedback.
i read the mothers post about her kids, what comes thru to me is the frustration of doing so much and not being respected, this is true for the above post also, but she doesnt sound as arrogant and hate filled about the kids just resentful, both are angry and frustrated but one has malice, if he hates it so much leave, not everything is about money and control
Oh sure. She basically saying she understands why someone would kill there children, but fuck! If this guy says he wants to punch his wife in the face, that's too far!...Seriously? Is that what you're trying to say to me?
What has this person done? Has he stopped working for the family? No. What did the mother do? She stopped doing anything in general.
So you're unintentionally implying that he hasn't gone through the frustration, even when "he" is the one that deserves the most respect in the family for working to keep them fed and heated.
This man does not sound arrogant at all. He expects to be able to make decisions as a father, then is frustrated when his wife, someone that is doing barely anything, where as he is working for a living, is denying him to make choices as a parent.
Just leave? Yeah, at the risk of losing his home, his paycheck, and doesn't have a chance to make his children more respectable. "He" has to give up everything because he is not allowed to make choices as the father, yet if he was to leave, he would be expected to take responsibility for them.
If anything, the mother in the links I shared is far worse. She left the whole family because she was expected to clean. This man is working, the provider of the family, and he is being disrespected.
Clearly you are trying to blame this man for any stupid reason you can come up with, where as try to make the woman that done a far worse thing saying "Atleast she's not as bad". You're obviously saying it's different only because he is a man, the father, and she's the mother, a woman.
maybe its all in the language maybe everything is the same, its just how its expressed, maybe its just words taken the wrong way, a misunderstanding of letters , clearly you are trying to blame a woman for any stupid reason you can come up with
Once again, you are trying to play that card. If you would like, I will link to a comment I made saying things that benefit the woman and shows that I agree that the man is in the wrong.
If you have nothing to say but blindly trying to say I am having these opinions because she's a woman, just becaus eyou can't say anything better, then don't reply at all. Waste of your time and mine.
Is it normal that I DESPISE my kids?
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his post is full of hatred so thats what we are commenting on, to hear a father say he hates his children...makes some people doubt the veracity of his story , i doubt the whole story and think he is the unloveable talking about the unloved
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His post may be full of hatred, but that's because he has a reason to feel that way. How would you feel working a job for your family to be able to eat, having to work so your children stay healthy, then when you want to try make "your" children more respectable because you know they're on the wrong path, you basically get slapped in the face and get told "you aren't allowed to make decisions a parent would, even though you're the rather that is paying for us to live"? How would you like that?
Like I stated on another comment, there is a motrher that posted basically the same thing about hating her husband and kids, and look at the feedback.
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i read the mothers post about her kids, what comes thru to me is the frustration of doing so much and not being respected, this is true for the above post also, but she doesnt sound as arrogant and hate filled about the kids just resentful, both are angry and frustrated but one has malice, if he hates it so much leave, not everything is about money and control
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Oh sure. She basically saying she understands why someone would kill there children, but fuck! If this guy says he wants to punch his wife in the face, that's too far!...Seriously? Is that what you're trying to say to me?
What has this person done? Has he stopped working for the family? No. What did the mother do? She stopped doing anything in general.
So you're unintentionally implying that he hasn't gone through the frustration, even when "he" is the one that deserves the most respect in the family for working to keep them fed and heated.
This man does not sound arrogant at all. He expects to be able to make decisions as a father, then is frustrated when his wife, someone that is doing barely anything, where as he is working for a living, is denying him to make choices as a parent.
Just leave? Yeah, at the risk of losing his home, his paycheck, and doesn't have a chance to make his children more respectable. "He" has to give up everything because he is not allowed to make choices as the father, yet if he was to leave, he would be expected to take responsibility for them.
If anything, the mother in the links I shared is far worse. She left the whole family because she was expected to clean. This man is working, the provider of the family, and he is being disrespected.
Clearly you are trying to blame this man for any stupid reason you can come up with, where as try to make the woman that done a far worse thing saying "Atleast she's not as bad". You're obviously saying it's different only because he is a man, the father, and she's the mother, a woman.
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maybe its all in the language maybe everything is the same, its just how its expressed, maybe its just words taken the wrong way, a misunderstanding of letters , clearly you are trying to blame a woman for any stupid reason you can come up with
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Once again, you are trying to play that card. If you would like, I will link to a comment I made saying things that benefit the woman and shows that I agree that the man is in the wrong.
If you have nothing to say but blindly trying to say I am having these opinions because she's a woman, just becaus eyou can't say anything better, then don't reply at all. Waste of your time and mine.