This community is a piece of garbage. I wish they would pass on, this generation is just pathetic.
Man, bad move trying to explain how the father is the victim. There is no father victim in this community, didn't you know? If the wife isn't allowing you to try make your children more respectable, it's "your" fault. That is the IIN community's mentality going on.
Don't waste your time asking such a question to these people, really.
Personally, I think you should give your wife a chance. Tell her that you are bringing in the money, and you are allowed to choose what punishments your children get if they deserve it, and if she ever tries to give back what youhave taken from your kids in your attempts to make them more respectful, tell her that's strike one. Tell her she has three strikes, and once those three strikes are up, you are filng for divorce and going to try take the kids. She obviously is the reason why they have turned out so bad. She is not even alowing someone else to try make them more respectful, and then allowing them to get away with what ever you have punished them for.
But really, this is just so ducking gross of a community. If this was a mother talking about her kids and husband, there will be no comments about how they might just have mommy isues, and all of them will be about how unfair she is treated.
The wife is the problem, and the childrens problem are the mother not diciplining them or allowing their father to.
Who is she to not let you dicipline your children when you are the one bringing in the money?
Ugh. I feel sorry for you, man. It's difficult to g et away from a family that aren't doing men well without some negatives, which is terrible of society to do.
If you were able to get the kids, you may not have to pay child support.
I kind of agree with you. From what I've read it's all because of the baby boomers who were soft on their kids.
PERSONALLY I HATE how I was raised - my mother was so lenient and my father's too busy with work.
When I'm older and have kids I will HOPEFULLY stick by my plan and go Aunt Polly on their asses, and bring them up in the ways of the 1800s. Well, minus the Christianity.
Is it normal that I DESPISE my kids?
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This community is a piece of garbage. I wish they would pass on, this generation is just pathetic.
Man, bad move trying to explain how the father is the victim. There is no father victim in this community, didn't you know? If the wife isn't allowing you to try make your children more respectable, it's "your" fault. That is the IIN community's mentality going on.
Don't waste your time asking such a question to these people, really.
Personally, I think you should give your wife a chance. Tell her that you are bringing in the money, and you are allowed to choose what punishments your children get if they deserve it, and if she ever tries to give back what youhave taken from your kids in your attempts to make them more respectful, tell her that's strike one. Tell her she has three strikes, and once those three strikes are up, you are filng for divorce and going to try take the kids. She obviously is the reason why they have turned out so bad. She is not even alowing someone else to try make them more respectful, and then allowing them to get away with what ever you have punished them for.
But really, this is just so ducking gross of a community. If this was a mother talking about her kids and husband, there will be no comments about how they might just have mommy isues, and all of them will be about how unfair she is treated.
The wife is the problem, and the childrens problem are the mother not diciplining them or allowing their father to.
Who is she to not let you dicipline your children when you are the one bringing in the money?
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I don't know how willing I am to give up my paycheck just to divorce her because that's what would happen. Child support and alimony.
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Ugh. I feel sorry for you, man. It's difficult to g et away from a family that aren't doing men well without some negatives, which is terrible of society to do.
If you were able to get the kids, you may not have to pay child support.
I kind of agree with you. From what I've read it's all because of the baby boomers who were soft on their kids.
PERSONALLY I HATE how I was raised - my mother was so lenient and my father's too busy with work.
When I'm older and have kids I will HOPEFULLY stick by my plan and go Aunt Polly on their asses, and bring them up in the ways of the 1800s. Well, minus the Christianity.