Is it normal that i date jerks even though i know they will hurt me?

This is a sign of low self-esteem. You like the idea of a guy who is in charge, who has confidence, and who gets what he wants. This is what you crave for yourself. What you don't realize is that these guys are faking it--men who are really in charge, and are self-confident don't need to be jerks--especially not to their girlfriends. These guys need to be put in their place. If that's really what turns you on, you should find a nice guy to be your boyfriend, and once you trust him, tell him you feel that way. Then, you can come up with a nice safe word and let him abuse you if you need it. Seriously, though, if you meet a guy who treats you well, you'll soon find that you have better self-esteem and you won't have that desire.

Yes it's normal in today's society. Cause most girls are dumb.

It is normal if that's all you have known in your life.

if you enjoy it than it it isn't a problem. if you don't than maybe you're trying to deal with something inside yourself. technically you could be using them.

well stop being so easy and stupid. problem solved.

its normal cuz many girls do. but u know its stupidity...

Are you border-line retarded?

If you're trying to figure out a way to change your dating habits then don't jump into a relationship with a guy just because you and he have the hots for each other. Wait it out and see if he is a douche both to you and others. This may mean you might be single for awhile, but there is really no problem here. When you find a guy you like that is actually nice you'll be so glad you practiced some patience, learned a bit about reading people and even developed yourself because of it.

If you do it and understand its wrong then dont complain.Its not normal.Thats why God gave us ability of thinking in fact its the thing that differs us from animals

It is what attracts you.you must have a low self-esteem.you should want some one who is going to be nice to you. I used to like that kind of guy until I meet my husband and we got marryed.he is nice.but it you say in that bad pattern the Lilly hood will be doing this 4ever unless u change it.change is never easy but it sure is fun. HHS luck

Then don't date jerks. Simple.

Yes, because those guys are usually the ones who have all the girls with their attitude and lifestyle. They have confidence and are exciting. Girls dig that shit.